If they were both standing middle of the road and both are to get hit and you can only save one ..... which one????
2006-10-13 00:11:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I know 2 couples that have adopted children and real ones as well
2006-10-13 00:11:37 · update #1
sparkelythings_4U .... u're an idiot ... this applies to couples that have both .... it's a matter of perception not pitty.
2006-10-13 00:14:49 · update #2
from what i hear from these people, yes... but i would have thought the contrary. If you had a choice in whos life you save, i would save the biological child since it is your own flesh and blood where as the other child, even if you feel love towards it, is not part of you and that is something that divides it from the other siblings and yourself.
2006-10-13 01:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I happen to be a product of foster care & adoption, and I would say that it depends on the parents. My adoptive father was the most horrible person I've ever met in my life (I was adopted at a very late age), but I also had foster parents before him who were wonderful (and I've had foster-parents both with and without their own children who were wonderful).
: )
As for the answer to your other question, that's a choice I hope I'd never have to make, because if I did adopt a child and I had a biological child, I would love both of them the same; my adopted child would be same as blood (or why else would I adopt him/ her?)
: )
2006-10-13 00:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by rockiebattles411 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an adopted child and two biological children. I do not even remember that she is adopted as far as how I love her until someone asks about it. She is just as much my child as the two I gave birth to and I believe her siblings feel the same way as compared to each other. Are you planning to adopt some cyber babies? Cuz I think Just Honest would be willing to have one with me. lol.
2006-10-13 00:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by whatcaniaskhere 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that question takes a little bit of thought, but I have raised my stepdaughter since she was 7 and she's 24 now..My husband and I had 2 children together and really I can honestly say that I would have to take the risk and do whatever necessary to save them all including injuring myself or even death....I love my kids....would do anything for them..
2006-10-13 00:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "a real one"?
This question is stupid. I have 4 children and I love them all the same. What makes a parent is who rears you and loves and supports you--not who gave you birth.
If you are adopted, feel blessed that the mother who gave birth to you loved you enough to allow another mother to rear you instead of having an abortion.
2006-10-13 00:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure.If you decide to adopt the heart already accepts the kid as yours even before you actually get the kid.
As far as which 1 to save? You don't consciously think like that.
Which ever one you're able to reach & save you'll be happy. And
sad at the same time.
2006-10-13 00:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
save the one that's closest to you, and yes you can love them the same i have a daughter been raising since age2 and now is 14 i am her dad and she knows i'm not biologically, also have two of my own.and already have saved her life twice.
2006-10-13 00:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by howie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 03:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a stupid question, and not a laughing matter, have some compassion for people who cannot have kids and have opened their hearts and their homes to offer adopted kids a loving family.
2006-10-13 00:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
im sure it is some ppl can not have kids and will love any child they can get their hands on as their own....
2006-10-13 00:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋