i am really worried please help???

Question

i am 10weeks pregnant, iv had a miscarriage last year i was 9weeks then! and really scared its going to happen again my mum and my nan and all three of my sisters have had one aswell could it of just been a genetic thing????please help

Answer 1

when i had my miscarriage the doctor told me that it is more common than you think! apparantly 1 in 4 women will have a miscarriage at some time and it is more likely to be with their first pregnancy. many women dont even realise that they are even pregnant and then go on to miscarry because it happens in sync with their periods.
i do feel for you, it took me a while to get over my miscarriage but i now have a gorgeous healthy 15month girl! my pregnancy was fine and the birth was ok (3 & half hours in labour)
my advise to you would be to stay positive. try to focus on each day on how your baby is developing. buy one of those pregnancy magazines, they have good charts in them. you dont want anymore stress on you or your growing bump! you'll have plenty of that with your hormones! trust me! lol
next time you see your midwife i would express your concerns and when you have your first scan soon make sure they are thorough. i wish you all the luck in the world and im sure you'll be fine! x

Answer 2

Statistics say one in three women will have had or will have a miscarriage, some women have a miscarriage and don't even know because the pregnancy was very short term (a week or so). There may be a genetic connection and it's worth asking the doctor if you are worried. However, for now just take it easy and try not to stress yourself out. I'm sorry that you wnet through the miscarriage it must have been a tough thing to go through. I am really pleased that you are expecting again and wish you all the luck in the world. Take care. Mel.

Answer 3

Have u not been to the dr to ask if it is a genetic thing u never said if any of ur sisters since they have had there miscarriages have gone on to have children i myself have just experienced my first miscarriage after having 2 normal pregnancies an havin my healthy babies at the end things im guessing are going well at the moment with no signs except ur mind playin games on u i think besides asking ur dr u should consentrate on relaxing and stop stressing as it wont do u or ur baby any good i wish u all the best hun X

Answer 4

I'm a pretty down to earth, level headed kind of guy, so I'm not sure whether my attitude to miscarriage would be helpful to you, but here goes....

Making a baby is incredibly complicated. Mother nature has to go from two cells (the egg and the sperm) to a complete baby made from many millions of cells. Just imagine how difficult that is. Usually she gets it right, but quite often she doesn't. When she gets it wrong she causes a miscarriage.

So, you might find it helpful to remember that this hasn't happened because you "did something wrong" or anything like that. It is probably just that, on this occasion, mother nature (not *you*) made a mistake.

But, give her a break, as I said, making a perfect baby is tough! (even though we take it for granted)

Having said all that, it wouldn't hurt to get a once-over from your doctor, just to make sure everything is okay down there. With such a difficult thing as making a perfect baby, it helps if the "baby making unit" is in perfect working order to begin with. :)

Answer 5

Talk with your doc and let them know the family history of it and tell them that you want to be watched closely and get them to give you a list of warning signs. I have only had one and the three pregnancy's turned out find. don't let it get you down or worry about it to much and don't stress out that will do more harm than good. I know it's not easy but always look on the bright side until you know for sure that you are in the clear. Good luck and I am praying that it all works out for the best and you have a happy and healthy pregnancy.

Answer 6

Please do not try to stress out. A large percentages of miscarriage's are down to stress which puts a strain on you or your child. Think positive and keep smiling.
Try to relax, listen to some music or have a Luke warm bath with candles.
If you are concearned about anything speak with your gp or your midwife. They will help so dont think nobody is there to help
Speak to you in 7 months with your little bundle of joy

Answer 7

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Answer 8

You should really ask your doctor about it being genetic as he shoould have your family history. Just because you have had one doesnt mean you will have another. I had one and three months later I was pregnant and had a healthy son. Worrying about it wont help you need to be calm. Good luck

Answer 9

if its going to happen it will a lot of pregnancys end in miscarriage just because other people in your familly have had them doesnt mean it will happen again just relax and enjoy the joys of been pregnant i suffered a miscarriage then went on to have 4 children with no problem

Answer 10

The more you stress about it and worry about it the more likely it is going to happen. Go and talk to your doctor and make sure you are doing everything you can to avoid it happening again. Look after yourself, eat properly and most importantly stay away from stress.
Good luck with your pregnancy. I hope it all works out for you.