2006-10-12 22:43:07 · 25 answers · asked by honey 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Be your self and if the girl likes you then perfect !!! but if she does not then try again with a different lady and that is the way it is.
2006-10-12 22:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by slickrickdesigns 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Movies are highly hypnotic learning vehicles which can help you really in vision the qualities that women find attractive. In the movie The Tao of Steve (which I highly recommended), the lead character, Dex, who is very successful with women in spite of being overweight and underemployed has three simple rules, be desire less, be excellent, and be gone.
Be desire less
Being desire less and detached from results in any situation is one key to his effectiveness. Being desire less you can be just be yourself and be “totally in the moment”, and not worried about a specific outcome. When you telegraph to a woman with your body language that you don’t have any objective, her attraction for you will likely go up. The fact that you are getting to know the women as a person and not a sex object will work in your favor. Never try to impress women. The key is to show interest only after you have validated this woman as someone worthy of your time.
Be excellent
Dex demonstrated excellence through his wit, banter, quest for knowledge, and cooking. If you have a talent, by all means grasp the opportunity to display it.
Be gone
One of Dex’s favorite lines was “we retreat from that which pursues us.” What that basically means is that women don’t like guys who follow them around like puppy dogs. In life, you want to end every encounter with the other party wanting more. Don’t over stay your welcome. Any successful relationship is give and take in equal amounts. Once one party is trying harder then the other party, the relationship is in trouble.
I think this movie contains some great dating tips for men. Once you become a Steve your love life will surely improve.
2006-10-13 05:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is important. Always compliment the things that she does for you. Have a great sense of humour.BE A GOOD LISTENER. Golden rule-
"MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH A WOMANS EYES, BUT A WOMAN FALLS IN LOVE WITH A MANS EARS". Make her feel very special.
A boy should be loyal,faithful. Be nice to all of her close ones. And give your true opinion about something if she asks you!!!!!!, The opinion may be bad or good, but if you keep giving her the good opinion even when you dont think much of it, then you are going to land up in hell. One day she will respect you for your true opinions.
Exercise the memory section of your brain and never ever forget your first anniversary, her birthdate, or her moms birthday or even her room mates birthday.
Learn to be Punctual , and on time wherever yuou are going with her. That way sher will start thinking that you respect the time you'll get together. And start getting romantic, and PLEASE BE YOURSELF , "WOMEN LOVE ORIGINALITY" and never ever betray!!!!!!!!!!!,
2006-10-13 06:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ananya R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he should be honest . if it is the case of love then be sure that ur more strong , honest .
but before that are u in college ? no then brother you are taking a big risk ..
NO . do misunderstand me it is true after school and college and when u go for work at the age of 24& when ur 26 may ur luck comes to get married to a women who is irritating or u know what i mean ? that's why men say "shaadi kar ke fas gaya yaar "
friend that's what i say enjoy ur school & college life .
next thing if u still wana have girl friend , then boss bach ke rehna ladkiyan bhi kuch kam nahin hai mard ko satane me expert ho gai hai .pleeeeeeeeease even im a girl i hate having boy friends
but this is what that happens in mumbaikars normally go threw .
2006-10-13 06:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by kriti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must just be yourself. You can't be everything to everyone. If one girl doesn't like you for who you are, you are better off without her. But always remember never to be pressured by your peers into having a girlfriend before you a ready or sleeping with her. If you have developed a good self esteem and you are a caring person, then everything will be fine.
2006-10-13 05:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he should be funny, but not the prankster kind of funny. My most admirable trait for a guy is to have them make me laugh. However he should also be serious when it's the right time for it. Some women also find it good for a guy to be sensitive..but that's not everyone. I hope that helps.
2006-10-13 08:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on what kind of girlfriend he wants- superfical girls are only interested in what kind of car and money he has
While the most loyal find good qualities in them regardless of their finacial status! Good luck
2006-10-13 05:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the more you are like me, the better, because I am God's Gift to Women. :P Nah, just kidding.
Self-Esteem. No one is going to like you if you don't like yourself, no matter how smart/goodlooking you are otherwise.Oh, and sometimes following basic trends help, like not wearing suspenders or something like that.
2006-10-13 05:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Anshuman.
2006-10-13 07:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by harpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is most important. No matter how bad ALWAYS be honest. Faithfulness. Treat her nicely, open doors, be courteous, DON'T push for sex. Be nice to her family & friends.
2006-10-13 05:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll5758 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋