Sometimes you meet someone in a chat room and talk to them and get to know them very well and then suddenly there is a change around and you get involved in their private lives and get emotionally involved in what is happening to them. Why...when you have never met them?
2006-10-12 22:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Because its probably easier to meet that way in a chatroom and also loneliness is a factor too. some of us are facing problems in our private lives and find this a good way of escapism, however we are very vunerable and can be easily led. when on the net we need to realise that we could get hurt too. however im sure there have been sucessful relationships that have met online so i just say go with the flow, never expect too much...
2006-10-12 22:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by sonia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is what I call Diana Syndrome.. I can never comprehend why people get emotionally involved with someone they have no connection with..Call me a hard stone face b'stard but - don't we all have too many of our own problems to be worrying & caring about someone or something we do not know. Latching on to something - I see it as a sign of Lonelyness or having some sort of void in their life.
2006-10-13 05:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because it is sometimes easier to chat when you are not face to face.
It takes some a lot of courage to start talking to a new person with all the fumbling,blushing stammering,struggling for things to say etc but piece of cake when hiding behind keyboard and monitor.
2006-10-13 05:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont really no i have had this happen to me more than one but now ive met the love of my life over the chat we spoke for five days then i went to meet him and now ill be moving in with him and we are planning to settle down together.
2006-10-13 05:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by tracey a 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they don't realise (or maybe they do!) the reality of meeting the person wouldn't be nearly as good so they have a little imaginary relationshop instead of dealing with the nitty gritty of people in real life
2006-10-13 05:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. since they are in fact looking for someone in the first place means they are already expecting some excitement to come. And when it does come, of course the feeling would be there.. like.. OK..here's a chance.. let's try my best to get it going. hehe
2006-10-13 05:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by arevoir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are lonely and that is the only company they get so they form attachments to people they meet online
2006-10-13 05:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some people have NO ONE in their lives. They are so alone and need someone to talk to.
2006-10-13 05:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by siany warny 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In a word loneliness.
2006-10-13 05:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Annie M 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i cant beleive cg hasnt answered this q yet! he normally has some insight into online relations...
2006-10-13 05:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by neogriff 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋