we r together from 3yrs and dont intend to marry. it all started as a trial to know how it feels to have a boyfrend. now we r great frends and accept that we love each other. but 1month ago i made a new frend. he is cuter than my boyfrend and often tries to flirt with me. i too enjoy the flirting. and since his presence i feel i dont love my boyfrend anymore and that i dont want to be in any relationship.. but i cant tell this to my boyfrend as he will be hurt.. what to do? i cant leave my boyfrend.
2006-10-12 21:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by studious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Since you can’t hide the truth forever you decide when to
tell the 1st boyfriend and hope he would understand. Just
be sure that you make the correct decision. Good luck.
2006-10-13 00:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is not always greener on the other side, perhaps you just need a bit of an ego trip. Many people find flirting fun and exciting especially if you are stuck in a rut. Everyone comes with bad habits, you know your b/f's but do you know this other blokes they could soon bug the life out of you he may not seem so cute then! Decide if it is love or lust you want.
2006-10-13 08:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im also in the same situation but here we r lovers fr 7 yrs and now continuing like frnds frm 2mnth., coz she loves his parents very much than me now not before when we r lovers. as a part of lover if accepted as far ur wish wat u said is i will do. Now we r frnds forever. Giving and accepting is only possible for lovers not for friends.
so u have to wait for more days and look at the new one what will he do fr u as a part of bf. ok. take care. dont leave ur friend is the best suggestion. cuter may come and go but a good friend will never.think it and act according to it.bye
2006-10-13 05:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time and think that you are with your boyfriend for three years and both of you are great friends... in this three years do you have any moment when you are in trouble and your boyfriend help you, if yes then he is your true friend.
Please also think your the involment with your new boyfriend is just a attraction or more then that.
taking all these factors in mine take decision. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-13 08:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Soman R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur boyfriend as u r doubtful about him and love is not confusion
2006-10-15 00:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You don't love him anymore.
It's his fault not being cute enough.
Nature versus nurture.
Nature ALWAYS wins!
2006-10-13 05:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur boyfriend you may love him....but ur not in love with him...that latter counts more
2006-10-13 05:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u need to introspect.
2006-10-13 05:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so
2006-10-14 07:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by chowdary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try with me
2006-10-13 05:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Suresh Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋