2006-10-12 21:42:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If asked, yes I guess it would be a good idea to tell the truth, however...what the purpose of even talking about it? It is the past, you cannot change it and sometimes it just creates problems. I think I would address the situation if asked about my past as "What difference does it make today?"
2006-10-12 21:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do, because you want your new lover to know where you are coming from. You don't have to give intricate details, but you can let him no your likes and dislikes and possible inform him of why your X's are X's.. I think that sets the terms and condition of your new relationship, and if they can't handle it then it wasn't meant for the two of you to be together anyway.
2006-10-13 04:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!!! He fell in love with you now and every person in your past ,lover or friend has had some influence in the final picture, and it is you today he fell in love with and if he insists on knowing your past get rid of him he is a nut,
2006-10-13 04:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the stupidest ideas I have ever heard. Do you want to hear about your lovers other lovers?
2006-10-13 04:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, bec if you tell him everything and he love you more than you could imagine he will accept you as a whole no matter what your past is, and if you find that kind of person don't let him go for he could love you then a 100 men could do!
2006-10-13 05:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by beng_ganda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther is nothing more frustrating than living a lie, nevertheless if your partner really loves you, he will not mind the status of your past.
2006-10-13 04:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave it in the past where it belongs!
2006-10-13 04:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on he can take it with an open heart or not
its not compulsory to tell
2006-10-13 04:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its surely necessary..................
if he / she comes 2 know abt it it later , ull suffer. so just tell the truth.
honesty is the best policy.........
2006-10-13 05:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends....will it help or hurt....sometimes why bother? life is too short....live for the now....
2006-10-13 04:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by JookieBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋