why is it that there's an option of getting out of it?
of course a mental case is an exception. but isn't marriage supposedly a lifetime commitment?
2006-10-12 20:23:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
marriage is the biggest leap in a person's life, it shouldn't be entered rashly without thinking. getting married because of emotional reason is never an excuse. a commitment is a commitment.
2006-10-12 20:33:46 · update #1
yes, what happened to the "till death do us part?" it's definitely not just a romantic line. it IS a VOW!
2006-10-12 20:38:49 · update #2
yep totally agree with you yes ther is an option but if you are a christian then you would know that if you get divorced and remarry you will committing adultry
2006-10-12 20:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree. It is a big step and it should only be taken once you're sure that you want to be together for a lifetime. It means there is more then physical attraction, but you should inspire, respect and love each other from the heart.
That doesn't mean it always works out and things can happen during ones life. A mental case is one thing, but for me, if my wife would cheat on me it means game over. I'm not married yet, but if so, that's how I feel about it.
2006-10-13 00:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vage Centurian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, marriage is a lifetime commitment. And divorces are only for extreme cases.
However, in our current society, this system has been abused. Most people have lost their believe in real love. Marriage has become a phrase of life. Many got married for the wrong reasons, only to regret their initial decisions. Thus, most end in divorces. Even in traditionally, conservative asian societies...divorces are becoming very common.
I guess, these days, many people do not truly understand the term "marriage" and the commitment behind.
Cheers....*sigh*....
2006-10-12 21:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a life time commitment. The reasons people get married are not always the right reasons and often people jump into marriage without really being ready.
2006-10-12 20:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but there should be an option to get out of it in case of abuse or infidelity. Also, unless they raise the minimum age to get married to at least 30, there should be a way out. People change way way too much before the age of 30 to be stuck for ever with some one they used to know who is now a stranger that they don't even like very much.
2006-10-12 20:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is suppose to be. Fortunately for me, there is a way out or I would have been stuck in a really bad place for a really long time. Divorce was the greatest thing that happened to me because I got to get re-married to a beautiful woman and now have the 2 most beautiful girls in the world with her.
2006-10-12 20:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by HBPD 126 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a lifetime commitment, that's why there's the line "till death do us part". sadly, some couples really don't realize this today and go on divorcing as if there is no tomorrow.
2006-10-12 20:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by d.t. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-10-12 20:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Vintage-Inspired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is supposedly a lifetime commitment. That's what makes it so difficult to maintain when there are so many changes in ourselves and our world.
2006-10-12 20:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is. The only case for divorce are adultery and extreme physical and emotional abuse. It's a commitment that unfortunately too many people take it very lightly.
2006-10-12 20:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋