im weak bcoz i cant fight back. its just not me. im feeling so down. or is it pms is doing its thing?
2006-10-12 20:08:42 · 18 answers · asked by acruz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are two sides to that coin:
1) if you are down, you will catch whatever is on the floor... which is mostly garbage, right?
2) being down makes you an easy pick.
But on the other hand, why do you have friends that instead of supporting you and picking you up in times of need, instead of encouraging you and helping you, hurt you and be sarcastic with you? what is wrong with THEM? What is with their self-esteem that they need to hurt other people or make them feel BAD so they can feel somehow "good" about themselves? It is a lousy system to obtain a cheap thrill at the expense of those who are weak.... do you really want to hang around that kind of people?
I would suggest you find yourself a more supporting environment. Perhaps if you look around you will see that there are pretty nice guys in your environment, not the most popular ones may be?
2006-10-12 20:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by tokialai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you write, i do no longer see which you have appropriate personalities . . . in any respect. She looks truthfully fairly gruesome, notwithstanding if she had sturdy cases with you. I had a pal or 2 like that in the process the previous, and it feels sturdy that there seems to be a connection, yet then there is not any longer . . . that's weird and wonderful. She does not look to preserve you anymore and probably that's purely tricky which you would be able to take (it may be for anybody, i'm no longer announcing your incorrect to have those thoughts), rather in case you have no longer got here across any new friends. That seems to be the undertaking, on the grounds which you maintain thinking with regard to the previous, which from what you're saying, is unquestionably long previous. i'm older and characteristic friends come and pass, and it became very hurtful whilst i became youthful. I purely say this because of the fact it style of feels to me that this person is in no way properly well worth the attempt and could purely harm you greater. attempt to discover events the place you will meet new those that have an identical hobbies as you - this could help. Volunteering can rather help - you would be gratified at human beings's appreciation and you purely might desire to fulfill a sparkling worrying pal that way, too.
2016-10-02 06:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you kno that people can actually see right through you? When I'm happy, I usually am sarcastic to other people. But when I'm feeling down, its noticeable and i feel vulnerable to sarcastic jokes. So start feeling happy and ur friends will cut out the sarcasm.
2006-10-12 20:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it witty sarcasm or vindictive sarcasm? If its the latter then they really are not your friends sorry to say but friends are not sarcastic with each other and try to bring the other one down. They are doing this to you because you are letting them, if you actually hit back then I doubt that they would do it again. Don't be shy and toughen yourself up girl!
2006-10-12 23:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by caroline b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without all the detail. I'd say sarcasm amongst friends is absolutely normal. It's a kind of warped process of endearment. I'd be more worried if they ignored you. Most people take it on board and go along with it for what it is.
2006-10-12 20:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS only happen once a month. There is no need to fight back. Talk to your friends about how you feel. You got to identify is it once once a month or everyday of the year. PMS does make me moody.
2006-10-12 20:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel vulnerably because you are probably harboring some kind of inferiority complex. Get rid of that and no amont of sarcasm can make you feel down.
2006-10-12 20:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by harsh_bkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your weak because you allow yourself to be weak, ppl love to run over ppl like you....not only that but your too nice to ppl and they take advantage of the situation, you strike me as the type that don't like to say no to ppl because you are afraid that you are going to hurt their feelings.... and your too vulnerable because you put yourself out there like that....you have to be strong enough to not accept ppl's crap...because honey they will walk all over you.... so stop feeling sorry for yourself and start fighting back *good luck*
2006-10-12 20:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those people that do that to you aren't your friend. Friends are people that don't hurt you and that is honest and that you can trust. You need some new, real friends because it seems that these people are just making fun with you.
2006-10-12 20:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarcasm may be a form of whit, do be shy and say some thing back. dont think it may sound daft, just do it.
Hey maybe they are not realy your friends /
2006-10-12 20:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by butin4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋