We are married for 9 years. My wife never expressed her desire to have sex with me on her own. If I take initiative she is fine >90% of time. Is it normal for most of women in India especially who have rural background? I have frankly told her this. But it didn't make any difference. It is not a complaint about my wife as I love my wife immensely. Just curious to know on what makes women like that.
2006-10-12 19:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Optimist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, quit calling yourself an OPTIMIST. Because, the meaning for this word is, being inclined to be hopeful & have a lot of confidence in whatever you do.
No Indian woman, who has a rural background, would crave to have sex. Shyness & modesty always comes in the way. It is better this way, or else, you being an optimist, might mistake her intentions. Learn to have things as they are, try to enjoy to the maximum. Good luck. Bye.
2006-10-12 20:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by sensible scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come you are from india and dont realize that indian women are very conservative. They might be working, educated and outgoing but when it comes to the 3 letter word its still the same whether she is from rural or urban its always the husband who has to take the initiative so go along and do that.
2006-10-13 02:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by preet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something different every time u enjoy sex. Make her curious .
let her think what u will do next time. Please her to the level of Ecstasy. Then don't invite for sometime. She will ask herself. This is an experiment, on emotions & sex, so please use common sence. Best wishes.
(if this fails there r other ways, don't give up by getting the answer : 'women r made so')
2006-10-13 03:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by raj r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry man . Indian women are like that so nothing unusual.Keep loving ur wife .She feels shy like all other indian women.
2006-10-13 03:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you accept anything from her and when you dont get you will be dissapointed, so dont accept anything then you will be happy. most of the womens are like that only especially indians. you are getting what you want when you desire so why worry enjoy from what you are getting.
2006-10-13 03:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by surtalsmak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know why married people don't have sex,because they related,no but the truth is that you got very comfortable,so you don't court her anymore,so start,in the morning wright her note,how much you love her,have a date with her,take her out dancing not movies,and i guarantee you that she will come on to you, try to take her out at least once a week,and see how thing will change.
2006-10-13 03:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't ask for it because she has no need to ask. You are more than eager to give it to her. Women know when the well won't run dry. Try putting a lid on it and see what happens.
2006-10-13 05:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to panic. Indian women are more conservative & feel shy talking or demanding sex even from their husbands.
2006-10-13 02:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is married life and nothing can be done about it. It appears that you have talked to her about it, so what can you do. Just love her for who she is and live your life that way.
2006-10-13 02:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask her if she is satisfied with your lovemaking.
2006-10-13 02:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋