when been together 4 2 years and he been cheatin on me and we have a kid togther and things arent going so well
2006-10-12 19:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by latoya t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yep, same thing happened to me. My babys daddy cheated throughout my entire pregnancy with teenage girls & eventually left me for another teenager. That was four years ago. It hurt like hell when he left but each day got better & really all you can do is focus on & put all your energy into your beautiful kid. Draw strength from your child because he/she doesnt know any better & can lift you so high when you feel at your lowest. Try not to be alone to much, spend time with family & friends & if that is not possible, there is always yahoo!
I dont think you can ever really "get over it" the pain can be so unbearable at times, the best thing really is to not own it, it was not you that did the wrong thing so dont you feel like you did, there was probably nothing you could have done that would stop a cheater from cheating. If you take him back, just be smart & dont fall in head first & be sure it is the best for both you & baby. Oh hun, my heart goes out to you, I know just how you feel, you will move on from it in due time, just remind yourself that you are worth more than he could ever give anyway. Best of luck sweetness, bless ya xxxxxxxx
2006-10-12 20:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After this long together I wouldn't think you need to get over this person. You need to have some counselling to save what you have built together as a family. If you and your spouse can't work it out then get help. You have been together too long to be thinking of getting over him because he is cheating. Try and find out why he is doing that, and work on it together. Good Luck
2006-10-13 02:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult to get over someone you love so dearly.Yes, you can get over him but you wont forget him and you will always love him its going to be hard but think of youre happiness aswhell and think about your child a child see's when things go wrong and it affects them aswhell.Spend less loving time with youre man it would make things easy make yourself strong let youre child be youre strong part in life and not him cause his going to continue hurting you!Go out only you and your child but dont keep youre child away from him.He will see there's a change in you and if he loves you he'd stop fooling around and he'd be yours and your child.Good luck let me know how things go!
2006-10-13 04:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by badgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get yourself busy with the things you enjoy doing, like your hobbies. Meet new people and spend as much time as possible with your friends. If possible go on a trip and enjoy it. Remember, you have to stop thinking about him and the more busy you are, it will be easier for you.
2006-10-13 03:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, no matter what you try that person you love will always be on ur consience even if you manage to move on... and if hes been cheating on you, you should be wasting ur time on tht jerk, try and talk to him if there is a child involved.
2006-10-13 02:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Keshoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, because you choose a wrong person don't choose the person you love choose the person who loves you. All the best
2006-10-13 03:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by hastalavista_raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, keep busy and meet new people.
2006-10-13 02:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you pregnant now?
2006-10-13 03:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by heaven help me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think..................
you're in the wrong category....
2006-10-13 02:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by cAtRiAnE", 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋