Me and my boyfriend had a disagreement and stop talking for 5 days. He told me that I need to stop acting insecure. That's why he didn't call me. He said that he thought it would be best if we didn't talk for a while before he do something he would regret. This Monday we just started back talking. Now we have been together for 4 months 2 of the months has been long distance. He wants me to come to house next weekend to meet his mother and spend time with him. My question is do you think I should go.
2006-10-12 19:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay I haven't seen him in 2 months And he say I was being insecure because I kept asking him if he was impressing someone
2006-10-12 19:36:40 · update #1
No. You're already a cheater, based on your other question, if you've been together 4 months. Don't hurt him any more than you already have, and never get married or involved in another relationship. Or keep hurting people.
2006-10-12 19:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you feel about him? Do you think this is a long lasting relationship; Is he possible the "one"? Are you indeed insecure and a needy person. Granted its hard to answerer these things after four months with two of them being long distance relationship but this is something you probably should consider. If you do think you are abit insecure i say go ahead and have the dinner he probably was trying to teach you al iesson and all is forgiven.. But if your not the insecure type he may be trying to hide something.. In that case its up to you what you want to do.
2006-10-13 02:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by mplimp2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you are not into him any more. You would have made that decision and not had to ask anyone, you just do not really want to go, so don't. Let him come to you. He is a control freak and already telling you what to do and treating you like a little child. I would kick his behind to the curb, and what is this with you coming to his house and spend time with him and his mum. Tell him to go take a hike. Go find a real boyfriend, not a mommy's boy.
2006-10-13 02:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think there is nothing wrong with going. i also think it is a good sign that he wishes to introduce you to his mother.
in my opinion however, the whole "purposely not calling you bit" was not a good idea. i think temporarily closing down communication in a relationship is never a good idea.
hopefully, if you go to meet his mom, he will feel comfortable and perhaps be open to conversation about why he chose not to call you for a few days.
this is just my thought, but i would never want to not talk to a gf, especially if she felt something was wrong and wanted to talk.
i hope in the future, he will be more inclined to tlak to you, rather than just shut things down for some time and then try to come back.
good luck:)
2006-10-13 02:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go.
If the relationship means a lot to you and you would like to make it a more serious relationship, show him that you care and meet his parents. They will also respect you for wanting to meet them.
2006-10-13 02:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should probably end this relationship! After all what he said was a threat!
2006-10-13 02:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really see no reason why shouldn't u go. has he proposed u to marry him? obviously not. so what's harm in seeing his mother? it's not life long decision - just go and have fun.
2006-10-13 02:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw,stay at home and watch water boil.
2006-10-13 02:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go and have fun. Play it cool and enjoy yourself.
2006-10-13 02:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jan Frost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if you're being insecure. he may just be a jerk.
2006-10-13 02:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by jonnybones5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋