Ok.....This is going to sound really messed up plus confusing..ok where to begin.Well there is this guy and as you all know if you anwsered my last question I was having some probls with my bf that moved away..If you didnt then dont worrie its ok just help me with this one please..OK well this guy he is like my best friend in the whole world and the thing is we like each other alot like more than friends and he has a gf though...He doesnt want to hurt her but he wants to go out with me and I want to go out with him..The thing is this girl is never around for him never talks to him and me and him are like this (crosses fingers) ..I just dont know what to do.should he tell his gf or stay with her or what.She is just upsetting e becuz she is never around for him anyway..and I am all the time..We have done more things that bf and gfs should do together than her and him have ever done..Please help me with this I dont want to be considered a bf stealer but she isnt around EVER help please !
2006-10-12 18:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK you guys so far are saying that if he wanted to be out of the relatioship he would have been but you know what i think he does want out but he just doesnt know how to tell her..yes you are right bout us breaking up and not being friends anymore but I just cant seem to function without thinking what she is doing to him..He sees it he just is to afraid to tell her to stop..he has told me he wants to call of the relatioship with her but he doesnt know how..She never I repeat never has time for him and even though I have cheerleading and alot of sports and crap I have time for him always....I make time ......anyway please please please help me I really dont get it..why so complicated???
2006-10-12 19:08:01 · update #1
I think it's up to him to decide if he should leave his current GF. If you don't want to be known as a BF thief I would say don't try to steal him. If he is messing with you and her I think he is just playing you both. Don't be a sucker!!!
2006-10-12 18:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was that bad of a girlfriend then he would have left her already. Ya'll should just stay friends because if yall get feelings and then get mad at each other then that frienship will never be the same
2006-10-13 02:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he has to choose--her or you. He's got your number. Tell him to call you only after he's broken off with her and when he is ready for you. As long as you stick around, he has no motivation to choose. Meanwhile, you're making a victim of yourself waiting around for him. You have to take charge of yourself. Stop giving all your power to him.
2006-10-13 02:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..according to me..you first should try to get that girl out of your way..because you never know when that can girl come in and ruin your love life. and you never even know, when your boyfriend can start black-mailing you and haunts you that he will ditch you if you dont work to his accord.
i know your boyfriend is very very good, but trust me sweety, no boy is reliable.
the only thing that i can say is keep your boy happy and try talking to that girl.
all the best.
2006-10-13 02:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to work it out.. just stay where you are now at his side and support him with whatever he decided to do.. and girl, you two are both in love with other and i can see that you learned to live close to one another.. youre close to what they call true love if he can manage in his own, still, be at his side....there is no impossible in love
2006-10-13 02:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by cxlyzr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, the relationship shouldn't advance until he calls it off with her.
2006-10-13 02:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be stressed and you can impose to you what is the best for you.i understand that you through
2006-10-13 02:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋