OK im really sad...?

Question

im crying right now.... heres whats happening in my life:
i have more than one stalker
ppl think im stalking them
I HATE MY FRIEND SO MUCH, she wont leave me alone, EVER!!!!
im getting bad grades lately
one of my best friends (lives like 5 hours away from me) hasnt called/emailed me in forever!
i havent been talking to a lot of my friends
i cry all the time, and when im not i really feel like it
i c everyone around me having a good time and i dont no y i cant
i really want some new friends, but i dont no what to do
happy things, that normally make me happy, just make me really sad
all the good times that i ever had r just gone
last year, i felt like i was perfect, but now i just feel like im slipping or something
i just feel like i dont belong
im just sad like all the time, but i havent told anybody because im affraid of what will happen. nobody knows how sad i am, cause i just dont no how to tell ppl
and just so many other things
WHAT SHOULD I DO??????

Answer 1

you are probably going through severe depression or severe PMS or both and its not necessary for your friend to contact you when you can contact them. if you want them to talk, you better Start talkin yourself. dont keep all this sadness balled up with no one knowing. its not healthy. you should really talk to someone face to face and get everything off your chest. it'll make it loads better. and why would you be afraid of wat will happen? that makes no sense. you are going through depression and you need to see a doctor about getting meds to help with that. because my brother has severe depression and he threatened to commit suicide on more than one occasion. its not a joke.

Answer 2

damn i wish i could help but im sad all the time 2, my grades have dropped, i want sum new frineds 2*crying* damn. i also see that everyones havin more fun than me and im not. But life is hard a ****. Im in love wit a guy named james blonde hair brown eyes who seems 2 be always happy when im sad and want 2 cry all the time. I sleep alot when im sad2. do u? ppl think im lazy when i put my head down. but its becuase im ****** SAD!! but..... sumtimes i have the times of my life.. and u jus can't waste those moments because there the best. Im alone in my spanish class and my guitar class its like no one wants 2 talk2 me, like i gotta disese or sumthin but the think is i don't wanna get 2 know them there not intresting 2 me at all . My grandma told me the other day that when u doubt ur self alot or think that certain thing isnt goin 2 help u, u should be positive because good things will happen wait and see... i hope i gave u a little confidence.=) if u have a myspace this is my url http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=34136428 we can talk about everything. or email me at [e-mail]
*Hug*

Answer 3

Everyone has their down times sometimes. It's part of life. Maybe you won't like or agree with my answer to your question, but what I think you should do is: you should pray. I am so sad sometimes that I feel as if no one can understand and you know what, most people may not understand how you feel because they are human and they can not look inside your heart and determine the depth of your pain but GOD knows your heart, he knows what's hurting you and He wants to help you, if you let him. All you have to do is get on your knees and pray a simple prayer. Tell God exactly what you told us through your posting. God will listen and he will lift you up if you ask him. Don't let sorrow and pain stop you from being yourself and from living a happy life. Listen: no one has a perfect life! Life is supposed to be full of problems, but we have to overcome them. And God is always here to help us overcome whatever we can not do ourselves. He can help you with your friends, with homework, with everything! I suggest you join a church if you havent' done so already, or try going to a few before you join...Church is a good place to feel closer to God and it will help you a great deal! I'll pray for you! God bless you

Answer 4

Girl I felt like that 4 weeks the guy I love w/all my heart left me I was so depresses and going through alot of things 2! well look Friends there are no friends in this wrld ever there always going to stab u where it hurts the most! just dont care bout n-e thing
n-e more u have 2 move on & stop thinking bout who likes u who cares who likes u just talk 2 every one if they dont like u they can go to hell! Talk 2 the person u think is going to understand u the most but remember that u make ure decissions! Think bout what ure doing cause all ure doing is hurting ureself! GOOD LUCK HOPEFULLY EVERYTHING GETS BETTER!!!!!!

Answer 5

I know things can be rough sometimes, but dwelling on all of the bad things doesn't help. I've made that mistake as well, and I know that the more you think about your problems, the more power that you give them. I don't think you should ignore your problems, but you shouldn't ignore solving them as well. It sounds like you're completely overwhelmed, and the only way to fix that is to focus on one thing at a time. I know it seems like a lot of work, but trust me, once you begin to face these things you'll start gaining momentum. Counseling/therapy is always a good option for this as well. It's not easy to jump into action, talking to a professional can help you get started.

Answer 6

You need more counselling session rather than answer.. Try to find someone that can listen to you orally.. You need to let your feeling out and let others to discover you.. You dont really need a five hour close friend.. A friend even five minutes also cant really make you happy.. Be content and look at others.. Then, you will find the brighter side.. Sure you will.. have faith in that..

Answer 7

Hun, you need to talk to someone...preferrably an adult. Do you have any close aunts or uncles? I know talking to your parents can be really hard. What about a teacher...or if you feel you need to talk in confidence (won't tell other people) what about a school councellor? Good luck to you and try to focus on those things in your life that are positive,...pet? hair-do? shoes? a friend? music? (Music usually helps me out). *hugs*

Answer 8

You just described the clasic signs of depression, and it can be very dangerous. It is my opinion that you should skip the first period class and go directly to your school counselor, and let it all out. There is help for your situation, and hope.

Answer 9

well first of all....calm down.......this is happening to me too......you are not alone....tons of other people probably feel just like u rite this moment.......i know how u feel....like everything was perfect but all of the sudden ur life is a disaster....welll whenever something goes wrong....just try to remember that life is a super long time.....this is just one of the bumps along the way...u'll probably forget all about it soon....so just relax

Answer 10

Heres a HUUUUUUUUUGGGG for starters..

Then all you need to do is burn all brigdes, then pick yourself up, dust yourself off & start all over again.

Smile, when you hit rock bottom, theres only 1 way to go, thats up!