i am SO confused! i have a good friend and i have fallen 4 his best friend! his best friend and i flirt.... he haz a gf, but we still both like each other... he doesnt wanna dump her, but still go out with me! i only found out 2day that my good friend LIKES ME!!!! i only like him as a friend....... and he iz jealous ov both ov us! does any one have any ideas to help me!!!! all answers will b greatly appreciated!
2006-10-12 18:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and my good mates best friend iz really hot! we both want to extend our relationship... i dunno if he iz goin 2 dump hiz gf 4 me... i really want him 2! my good mate duznt no this and we dont want him 2... we dont wanna hurt hiz feelins! ; (
2006-10-12 18:39:17 · update #1
my good friends best friend just dumpped his gf 4 me!.... well... that iz wot he sed..... shood i go out wiv him now? or iz it a bad thing 2 do... not only 4 both ov us... but 4 my good mates sake?
2006-10-12 19:48:24 · update #2
Lots of alcohol will fix this mess.
Get everyone into one room.
Lock the door.
Get drunk.
Music.
Sex.
2006-10-12 18:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by s t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) the friend of a friend who has a gf and wants to keep her and see you too is a jerk, and a player...think of how you would feel if you were in her place and found out he was messing around with someone else.
b) your friend who likes you and who you like as a friend is jealous that you are with his friend, and now sees you as someone he can 'get' because he can see that if you can mess about with someone who has a gf already then your moral standards should be low enough that it would probably seem to give him a chance with you too.
You need to step back and see exactly how you are behaving and how it is percieved by others. You need to find yourself your own boyfriend and if possible...a new friend.
2006-10-12 18:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple:
Tell your good friend and tell him that's how it's going to be--good friends only.
Tell his best friend to get lost, that you think he's cute and all, but you are not going to be his "girl on the side".
Honesty is the best policy. Take care of yourself.
This way, you'll have your good friend and space in your life for someone special who will want you more than anyone else.
2006-10-12 18:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why do you want to date a guy with a gf? thats against the code girl!! he made it clear he wants to stay with her so youd be best to stop before it goes further and you and his gf get hurt cause it will happen. as for the friend that likes you ,be honest with him thats all you can do.
2006-10-12 18:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your good friend!If the guy you flirt with won't dump his gf,why should you stick with him?
2006-10-12 18:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by frozen_blue.angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your good friend likes you then go for it and be his girlfriend
2006-10-12 18:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by ekay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn,we r in almost same c2ation!
2006-10-12 18:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by xpac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋