i made out with my best friend two weeks ago and now i cant get her off my mind, even in bed with my hubby i cant stop thinking about her soft lips. when my hubby and i were having sex i even said her name on accident. most men would be ok with this however my man is an anti-gay activist and would dissown me and take my children if he found out how i feel, i cant even stand to be in my church bc my beleifs have tought me these kind of feelings are sinful and worng. plese help. And God bless!!
2006-10-12 18:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by rachelhaggerty82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Am religious too but i know that god still loves me.. Its your relationship with god that will define your religion not your sexuality. Are u gay?? Hmm... You might just have a strong attraction to your friend.. You might not really know until u try to explore this relationship with her.
2006-10-12 18:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Miss.H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell if you're gay from what you say. I notice that you are married, but have been making out with another person. The sex of the person is secondary to the fact that you are cheating on your husband with her. Seems to me that you need to figure out your relationship with your husband first.
Most gay people have had a strong attraction to people of the same sex for years when they "come out" to themselves. Sometimes when that happens, they are involved with people of the opposite sex because that's what has been expected of them by family, church, etc.
I don't believe that God makes mistakes and that some people are straight, some gay, some bisexual, etc..
You could get counseling. Be aware that if you see a counselor through a religious organization, they are likely to want to discourage your exploration of the question of your sexual orientation.
2006-10-12 18:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something that anyone else can say for you, you are the only one who can know if you are gay. However, on the religious standpoint, don't worry too much; you cannot pick and choose who you love, and something you can't control can't be sinful/wrong, because you are not consciously trying to be harmful. Hope that helps.
2006-10-12 18:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ben R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a rough thing there. I can understand how you feel. God gave us the freedom of choice, because you feel this way don't let your teachings distract you from soul searching.
2006-10-12 18:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a gay bar and see if anyone hits on you. They'll let you know. Gaydar works every time. If you're not, give me a call.
2006-10-12 18:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Major Toescurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants you when your bi.
2006-10-12 18:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by s t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋