ive know her for about a month but we havent really talked about hanging out...but i wanted to know if i should pay for her if its our first time hanging out? in a concert.....
2006-10-12 17:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, you should definitely fit the bill for the evening, casually, without bringing it to her attention. It's not about relationships, sex, or sexism; it's about being a gentleman, and all women appreciate men who are gentlemen.
2006-10-12 17:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by american_sweetheart_22f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a date or you wish it was then yes.
However in today's society she might take offence to it even if it is a date. If she does, just let her know you were trying to be a gentlemen and leave it at that.
Now with that being said any other time no.
See the truth is in courting a female it is ussually expected. However if you are not courting then it is seen a offensive. Remember a woman can do anything that a man can do.
2006-10-13 01:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by darksphyx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should pay. But...please don't expect anything in return. Have fun at the concert and treat her with respect.
2006-10-13 03:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to pay you only the interest portion on the money you have borrowed...to pay her ticket.
if too complicated...here is the calculations -- let's say you borrow 100 dollars from the bank....tell her the interest portion..is 10 p.cent which is 10 dollars..and let her pay the interest and you pay the principal.
and enjoy...whatever u want to do with her Mr. El chipo.
2006-10-13 00:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no intentions of being with her sexually then you do not have to pay her way to the concert.You should pay her way out of respect and because you are her friend .Its the amarican thing to do unless you just simply cant afford it
2006-10-13 01:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to go with you, then you should pay. How much are you willing to pay to have a good time with someone you like?
2006-10-13 01:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very difficult thing to answer b/c idk her. don't overdue it or she'll fell guilty that's all i can say. but if u call her 'this girl' and not ure friend then now i really don't know...........well good luck w/ that.
wait, do u mean like a date or what? r u a guy or chick??
2006-10-13 00:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should if you like her.
2006-10-13 01:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely pay...
I'm sure she'll appreciate it.
2006-10-13 01:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her,then go for it.
2006-10-13 01:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋