I go to college and my dorm is apartment-style, with two rooms on either side of a living room. One of the people across the living room is being extremely rude to me. She won't even speak to me! She was nice at first, but now she's just plain mean. How could we sort out our conflict?
2006-10-12 17:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by Destine 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
If she was nice at first, but is now extremely rude and won't speak to you, it sounds as though something has happened. If you have no idea what that something is, you're going to have to ask her. If you do know what that something is, tell her you'd like to sit down and discuss it. If she refuses to talk to you, could you call in an intermediary, one of her friends, who might be able to convince her that the situation has to be sorted out? Failing that, you might have to move to another room and swap with someone else.
Tough way to start a year!
2006-10-12 17:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with her. Just ask her if she has something against you. Your best bet is to be honest. When you do ask her though, stay calm even if she cocks an attitude or anything. If she is being rude when you being nice then don't expect her to be super friendly when you are confronting her. Also before you do confront her, grab some coffee so you can give it to her while you speak with her. It could make the conversation a little less hostel. Although confronting her could lead to a worse situation. So make your decision carefully and if you choose to approach her, do it delicately. Good Luck!
2006-10-12 17:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes her more important than you? Her attitude is bad for herself, don't let it be bad for you too, why should it? Be a bit sorry for her that she's poisoning herself like this with her wrong behaviour, but don't let it affect you - you know what you are, you don't let other people spoil it or make you doubt it, they have no right to do that, and no power to do it either unless you let them, so don't.
2006-10-12 22:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try and talk to her and ask if there is any problems,with you or the living situation.and if she does have a problem try and talk it out calmly.if its something that can't be resolved try finding another roomate if she continues to be rude.
2006-10-12 17:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try nice first - and if nice doesn't work, talk in a language that they understand.
2006-10-12 17:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move...you don't need the distractions !!! she won't give in...I know the type. good luck
2006-10-12 17:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beat her *** and she wont be mean to you anymore.
2006-10-12 17:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋