When a lot, too much?

Question

I've realized that lately I have doing some stuff that is considered unhealthy a lot lately, and all my friends think that I'm over doing it. I get drunk (and not just the wabbling when I walk drunk; the falling down, can't find my clothes, can't feel my feet drunk) two or three times a week. After every time I drink, I've almost always gone at least 24 hours without eating.
I also have sex (sober) two or three nights a week (not counting how many times I do it each night) and not counting all of my drunken mistakes.
I have very active physically and I watch my diet and take relatively good care of my body except for these little esapades. I drink ALOT of water every day, but my friends are still egging on me to tone things down, even the ones that are partying with me some of the time. Am I over doing things?

Answer 1

`if u r drinking beer n eating yeast bread this will confuse the brain, so u must take olive leaf extract to kill the yeast fungus

`alcohol destroys vitamin b, so if ur lips r thin, u may need a good vitamin b complex daily or eat brown rice, this will also help u not to fall down

`eat bee pollen with organic honey everyday, this will supply all your vitamins & help u feel good
`plus kelp tablets have the minerals that the body needs or do u like eating sushi / seaweed?

`if u feel burn out from too much sex, u may need to drink stinging nettle tea

Answer 2

If your friends who party say you have a problem, it's likely that you do. They're not trying to be prudes; they're honestly worried.

Has it ever occurred to you that while you are in this vulnerable drunken haze that anyone could steal your cash, take you out in the middle of nowhere or a really bad neighbourhood and leave you stranded and passing out, or even try to kill you themselves because they're psycho?

All the exercise and good eating habits in the world won't protect you from a concussion if you fall down while partying, or alcohol poisoning when you drink too much, and the brain damage that could result. Your face could get scarred from a bad fall, or you could drown in a kiddie pool. Some have even would up in wheelchairs from accidents like that.

And while there's no denying that sex is great, what's with the promiscuity? Does everyone look hot to you? It wouldn't hurt to be more selective. Just because someone gives you a second glace doesn't mean you have to put out.

Give yourself a break and swear off partying. Really examine what your motivation is to be so self destructive. Talk to a councillor. Talk to a good friend. Talk to a parent.

Take care of yourself.

Answer 3

1. Go see a gynecologist as early as you can. You need to be tested for STDs, some of these can be FATAL in the long run and have no symptoms in girls. They can perscribe you birth control if you choose to use it. There are free STD clinics so money is no excuse, they are in the phone book.

2. Go to AlAnnon you have a drinking problem, called binge drinking, meaning you don't drink all of the time but have problems controling either how much or when you drink.

Answer 4

If your partying friends are telling you to tone it down TONE IT DOWN, you are loosing respect from even your closest of friends, and they are worried about you, you have no idea what you are doing and I am sure word is getting around about how out of it you are and how WILLING you are to have sex when you are drunk, you might get some kind of a desease, I know when you are young you make dumb decisions, but you are smart when you realize that and change. GOOD LUCK =)

Answer 5

If you half to ask me, then I would say that u are not aware yet of your problem. Yes you are on a distructive course. Slow down the drinking til you are sober. Stay that way for a while. You can have fun without overdoing it.

Answer 6

wow, that was me a couple of months ago. I think that you dont realize what your doing wrong and you dont take the consequences of drinking and having sex very seriously. You should think about it now, unfortunatly i didnt and i had to go through alot of stress these past 3 months. Just think about the consequences before you do something stupid.

Answer 7

ok, welll lets see answer this question for me...
i do stupid **** when im drunk..what can i do?
HMMMM dont get drunk. duh.
take it from somebod who has been in your shoes. now im a member of a twelve step program and yeah
while your partying so much your consuming hundreds of calories you DO NOT NEED, also if your "partying" like you say you are, your lying. your probably doig more than wht you;ll admit to, when your abusing chemicals obvioulsly your body is not going to get in shape.

make a descion to quit parting or just get over it.

Answer 8

yes the drinking is an issue particulary if you are drinking that much you need to talk with someone you trust like a priest/counselor misnister. alcohol can be addicting not to mention the damage you are doing to your body

Answer 9

Yes!!, control yourself, you're on a highway to disaster.

Answer 10

If you have to ask those questions, you probably are overdoing it.