is a very sad person alot of things happened to her and she just told me that her bf just broke up with her and she says that if the doctor sends her to a home like where suicidal people go then she said "im done with my life" and this has really made me wanna get up be superman and just go over there to her and stop her from doing this she might do this and make the biggest mistake of her life and she's gonna leave me behind what do i do??????????
2006-10-12 16:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK, if she's by herself, get your *** over there now! (if it's as bad as you say)
A doctor won't send her anywhere unless she is seeing him regularly and is obviously a danger to herself when he sees her. If she does get admitted to an ER she will spend 2-4 days on suicide watch.
This is not any kind of joke. She needs professional help Now.
If she does leave you, you will go on. You will feel guilty and miss the hell out of her. But you will go on. Be a friend now. That does not mean telling her what she wants to hear. It means being honest and kind. But be real and realistic.
I have you both in my thoughts.
2006-10-12 16:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by hbbeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that you feel her pain but you would be heartbroken if she were not around to brighten up your life. If she questions you how she does, tell her. She is your friend, tell her what makes her so.
Tell her that despite how ugly it looks right now, tomorrow is a brand new day and that in a shorter time than she thinks all her problems will be only a memory.
Tell her that there is no promise that in ending her life, it will be better. Whether she believes in an other side or not, there's no use taking risks with that stuff.
Ask her if she has decided on how she's going to do it and if she describes it to you, you must let someone know about this. But regardless of what she does, it does not make you guilty of anything but trying to help a friend.
2006-10-12 16:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most people that are truly suicidal do not talk about it. Your friend's friend is crying out for help and attention. Your friend needs to speak with an adult, like his parents right now. Then his parents can go to the other boys parents so they can get the proper counseling for him. A lot of people now a days say, well I don't want to get involved. But it is our duty to help one another out when they are in need. Look at the twin towers disaster, how do you think everyone would have faired if the helpers all said, I don't want to get involved! Good luck
2016-05-21 21:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's really suffering as bad as she or you think then i think that commiting suiced is best for her,
let her put herself out of her own misery so that she doesnt have to feel this way anymore
its HER problem not yours, and your only making things worse by putting stress on her life
she's probably getting this already from a lot of people and she doesnt need it from you, she needs support from you
everyone is gna die anyways so why does it matter when it happens
why not give the earth some room to live, since its so overpopulated
your friends suicidal and has all these problems going on, let her stop it herself, greive for a year and then get over it
thats the best thign you can do for her
2006-10-12 16:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by fuzzy19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is actually suicidal, she needs to go to the hospital. With the right medication and therapy, she can be happy again. Talk to her and try to get her to understand this. Also, let her know how you would feel if she committed suicide. (yes, I do mean to guilt trip her if that will help keep her alive.) You can't protect her from herself but you can make sure she gets the help she needs. If you are teenagers, then tell an adult (your parents, her parents, a teacher..) who can help her. If you are adults and she starts talking about killing herself, you can call 911. They will bring her to the hospital. Also, if you are teenagers, realize and help her to realize that teenage life is hard, and it gets better as you get older. I believe that the teenage years are the hardest part of life. You want to be independent and your parents want you to remain children. It is tough for both sides.
2006-10-12 16:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand suicide....there are people who have it so much worse. i have had a lot of rough spots in my life and never considered taking it....and i still know that my situation is not the worst. try to make your friend understand that life goes on, and it is precious. the joy and pain that it puts you through makes you a stronger in the long run. the more s**t you go through....the more stuff you will be able to handle.
2006-10-12 16:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Let her know how you feel let her talk to you about how she feels. I went through the same thing only I was the one that was suicidal. I hated people telling me that they know how i felt when they didnt. Make the attempt to understand her. If anything just let her take out all of her frustrations.
2006-10-12 16:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend's parents!!!
This is too much for you.
Give her the phone number of the local suicide prevention hotline!!!
TAKE THIS VERY SERIOUSLY.
Good luck to both of you.
2006-10-12 16:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit it and quit it brotha
2006-10-12 16:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by kevbeer2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋