He is always staring at me and it's like this electricity that sparks between us but I am not physically attracted to him. He's everything opposite in the looks department that I like in a guy. I just can't seem to get him out of my head though. How can I get him out of my mind so that I can think properly? I'm having a hard time functioning at work with this.
2006-10-12 15:45:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
He's the Scorpio. I'm a Taurus. Sorry for the confusion. And he's definitely interested - it's not just a gaze. His eyes made me feel like we were speaking without words.
2006-10-12 16:26:15 · update #1
Scorpio may look like a nice guy, but he is a criminal mastermind underneath. Avoid his death ray gun.
2006-10-12 15:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I know exactly what you are talking about. Scorpios are mesmerizing. They are intense....and being that you two are on opposite sides of the zodiac you are going to be naturally drawn to him...and him to you. I have had several (and I mean several) friends that are Taurus that have dated Scorpio--the relationship did not work out at all--but they could not stay away from each other. For some reason they were just drawn together...it's a weird connection these two signs have...and when they were done with the relationship they still had a hard time getting over one another.
Scorpios speak with their eyes--especially the men. They are a very intuitive, magnetic, intense sign so they naturally attract others to them (making them feel a connection..like you said...through eye contact). Scorpios are also very smooth talkers and since they are very intelligent people they tend to be very manipulative and good at getting others to fall for them.
I am having such a hard time explaining exactly what I mean....but I know exactly what you are talking about..I've experienced it myself....once I knew a Scorpio who died...but the strange thing was a week before he died we had this eye contact and this strange connection--as if he was speaking to me through his eyes....and that was seven years ago--to this day I cannot get that look/moment out of my head.
Girl if you feel this connection go for it...who cares about his looks...thats not all that matters you know...
2006-10-13 18:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The scorpio sting has gotten to you.. remember, looks ain't everything... depending upon the scorp, some are superficial and go for looks, but if a scorp is staring, he's attracted to something about you, and for me it's usually the inner being of the woman... I've been attracted to women who I never thought I would be because of it.. but yeah scorps will freak you out...
Personally I'd say try him out... what harm is there.. as relationship experts have said that sometimes the perfect mate is usually the one we don't even think we will be attracted to on first meeting
2006-10-13 10:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by gearbox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! finally someone who understands! i have the same problem with the guy at my job. he's not even physically that attractive..but he honestly gets to me. i can't stop thinking about him and his damn 'all seeing ..all knowing.. black eyes' basically, i think you and i are done for. because, he knows..he knows you're thinking about him..and i know that sounds creepy..but you've given him free access to your eyes (which as an artist i know-is what truely displays the essence of a human soul) this scorp might not even know you very well in the superficial sense..but he knows you interiorly better than most..and thats a fact. you have been placed under the scorpscope..he's interested and he'll break you down into little molecules which you can be sure he analyzed completely. as well as this, he's set up a challenge 'are you bold enough to try?'
and yes, you should in my oppinion try..because scorpios are unique people to introduce to your life. he's got more passion bottled within him i guarentee, than many other people you'll ever meet. sometimes its uncomfortable being see-through so try your best to always keep them in some form or way..guessing.
talk to him though..if there are sparks (even if he's not your usual type) it's worth looking into. you need to put it our there though..for the sake of you job and so that you don't start playing too many head games..scorpios WILL do that.
Good luck, if you find out a solution..im kinda in the same mix. let me know.
2006-10-12 23:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by luckmess 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not sure is he scorpio or you ?
So if it is him, this is my reply
Scorpio and Love
To Scorpio, love is an intensely passionate and enduring emotion that may be directed at one person only. Love is central to the life of typical Scorpios and inspires many of their ambitions and actions. Scorpio in love will have many of the characteristics listed below.
Behavior, when in Love the typical Scorpio:
* is deeply attached to the loved one
* attracts the loved one like a magnet
* is possessive
* hides emotions in public
* keeps dependence on the loved one hidden
* is faithful when in love
* dominates the loved one
* remains true to his/her own feelings
Expectations of the typical Scorpio expects:
* absolute faithfulness and loyalty
* demonstrative love
* no great emphasis on romance
* genuine tenderness
* acknowledgment of how lucky the loved one is to be party to Scorpio's secrets
The Scorpio Male
If a man behaves in a way typical of the personality associated with the zodiac sign of Scorpio, he will have a tendency toward the characteristics listed below, unless there are influences in his personal birthchart that are stronger than that of his Scorpio sun sign.
Appearance of the typical Scorpio man:
* has strong features
* has penetrating eyes
* has thick eyebrows
* has hairy arms and legs
* has a well-proportioned figure
* has an athletic body
* has a tendency to be bowlegged
Behavior and Personality Traits
* is never self-effacing
* is possessive of what he believes belongs to him
* has to maintain his dignity
* is a law unto himself and is most courageous in adversity
* will give absolute honest advice, appraisal, or compliments
* will move mountains to help someone
* is intensely loyal to friends
* never forgets a kindness or injury
* can be a saint or a sinner, but pursues either course with great zeal
Positive Factors
Scorpios have good memories and enjoy telling jokes. They are generous and hospitable toward friends, and also make strangers welcome when they call for help or advice. Friends of Scorpios will be treated like family and given every help and consideration. Whenever Scorpio gives a friend adice it will be reliable. A friend can also trust Scorpio never to gossip.
Negative Factors
Scorpios are unlikely to visit friends without making arrangements and having a good reason. Scorpios like others to do the visiting. If they are out when a friend comes to visit, their attitude is that it is the friend's loss and that the friend will have to visit again. Scorpios have an almost psychic insight into the motives and secrets of their friends. Anyone who dislikes someone knowing their secrets should stay away from Scorpios.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-10-12 23:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what moshydog is b-s-ing. scorpios can be good OR bad, like every other sign. and a lot of astrology resources will tell you that scorpios have penetrating eyes. so a scorpio might just have normal eyes and read that, then try to stare some1 down, thinking it's penetrating. so don't be weirded out, unless he likes you, he probably gives most people that look
2006-10-12 23:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he drives u crazy that bad then let him know but just make sure ur reading the signs in the right manner, like u dont have anything to lose, coz it just might be that he is the one n dont let ur pride get the best of u
2006-10-13 01:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by LIV4_CHRIST 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the guys we wouldn't be attracted to. Are the ones we find ourselves totally loving!!! Try talking to him and see if he wants to go out!
2006-10-12 23:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by JaNa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing a song,or focus on your work.
Try making poems,so if you have to think about him,you can write it out,or you can write a poem to try to forget by focusing on the poem.
Hope I helped a little.:)
2006-10-12 22:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Vulpix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋