i have a lot of guy friends (45) but mmm... 10 i like like
i always feel akward when i talk to them. i don't knkow what to talk about with them. it's all internet friends (no not 40 y.o. preds) plz help me
my guy friends i don't like just ignore me when i ask them
2006-10-12 15:27:59 · 11 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One of the ways to charm people is to find out what it is that interests them, and then question them about it (even if you don't like the subject). Most people are quite willing to expound upon their favorite hobby, sports team, automobile, movies, and so on (sometimes endlessly). And of course, sexy jokes are a big icebreaker.
2006-10-12 15:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about something he is really knowledgeable about.
If you don't know what he knows about, ask about sports. It's ok to ask about really basic stuff--he'll feel real important explaining it to you and amazed and lucky that your're interested (even if you aren't especially).
For example, you could ask how many conferences there are in the NFL (National Football League), or how a team gets to the Super Bowl. You could ask who are some of the players he likes, and why.
There are some males (approximately 37 of them) that are not interested in sports. You'll have to try a different topic then.
Guys feel comfortable talking about stuff they know. It's a "safety zone." You can move to other subjects that interest you once the ice is broken. Good luck!
2006-10-12 22:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by EXPO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people like talking about themselves, guys particularly.
If you can stand to hear someone rant about themselves for a while you can learn a lot about them. (I am a guy, but I try not to rant too much)
To talk to a guy, find something he is interested in and start by asking him about it. Or if you know something about that topic ask him what he thinks about 'xx' (what ever that it is in the topic.)
If you can't discover a topic he has some interest in that you also have some interest in, then he is probably not making any effort to get to know you anyway, so is there any point in wasting your time in that case? Happy fishing!
2006-10-12 22:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, 13yrs old is a bit too young to focus more on internet friends.
i'm sure you have a wonderful neighborhood, a good school, etc.
now's a better time to build friendships/relationships with people (guys, for that matter) outside of the internet.
also, nothing's really wrong if you have a 40-yr old friend.
i had a 60-yr old friend when i was like, 10.
2006-10-12 22:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by doe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it sounds a little strange, but make a list of things to talk about. By doing so, you'll do the thinking about what to say before you have to say anything, reducing the awkward silences.
2006-10-12 22:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by hawkeye847 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bssic guy stuff. Cars (if you're interested) sports (you don;t really have to follow, but at least know who's playing), music (whatever is going on), even comment about female celebrities (Paris, Fergie, Jessica)
2006-10-12 22:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell them how u feel i mean it'nthes just an internet relationship like one is gonna know your cheating on the other one with cyber fun
2006-10-12 22:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop trippin. Send them naked pics of yourself. Then they won't ignore you
2006-10-12 22:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WITW are you asking? Could you put your question in simpler terms, maybe?
2006-10-12 22:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I count my girlfriends, must be up to 500 or so.. heh heh.. when you run out of fingers, use checkers..
2006-10-12 22:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋