he say he love me . what should i do
2006-10-12 15:25:38 · 43 answers · asked by cutie 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Do you love him ? Is the love enough to forgive him ? Can you pass this and move on? this is about you and how you feels . Not about him and how he feels about you. This can happen another time if you continue your relationship with him without a good reason and that's what you have to ask yourself .look inside your heart, otherwise you gonna hurt your feelings.
2006-10-12 15:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you certain that your boyfriend has been with someone else in an intimate way? If so, then it is time to move on. Maybe, someday, when he grows up, if he ever does, you won't like him anymore.
There is nothing wrong with being alone for awhile to decide what you want. And if you decide that you want to start dating again, there will be plenty of guys to choose from.
The key is making sure that you don't have to learn the same lesson twice. There are men out there who don't cheat.
2006-10-12 15:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really sorry, but I mean he is taking full responsability for his actions without trying to blame you for making him cheat on you, and you love him, you should give him a chance. That's what I did, ( off course I have two kids with him) I decided to give our relationship a second chance. Has it worked? well so far so good, he's been really sweet and caring, but now I have my two eyes wide open in case he decides to cheat again.
Follow your heart, and do what you think is best for you, if you really decide to forgive him, you have to put behind what happened, is really hard to know that he was with someone else, but if you really try, you can pass that, and hopefully he'll be faithfull to you forever..
2006-10-12 15:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you,and his maturity.People are human and humans make mistakes.But if this not the first time,or you can't forgive him for hurting you as bad as he has,then get rid of him.
Can you forgive what he has done?Can you ever trust him again?Do you want to?
Another thing if he loved you ,why did he hurt you in that way?That's a terrible way to hurt someone.It changes everything in a relationship for good.Not many people can get over it,and really trust,and forgive that person who did that to them.
Good luck,and remember not all guys are like that.
2006-10-12 15:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by seandebra17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...if he loves you enough he wouldn't have 2 cheat on u 2 get enough love. Tell him to "grow up".
2006-10-12 15:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by bball_vball_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how much did he love you when he was cheating, in love there are no second chances if you screw up that badly, your worth more than that, and I'm sure you can find someone who will be true to you alone. Good luck
2006-10-12 15:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me with my girlfirend cheating on me. I dumped her without thinking it twice. You should do the same thing and be cold hearted when asked for second chance.
2006-10-12 16:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a loaded question...your command of the English language reveals you may be anyone from an Illegal Alienette to a Mail Order Bride, certainly not an American gal which would never be asking this type of question, "unless" she was Hillary Clinton, power-mad and Lesbian...are you..Hillary that is?
2006-10-12 15:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by B'klyn Barracuda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes cheated on you once, he'll do it again. Dump him, you dont deserve to be treated like that. No woman deserves that. He's only telling you he loves you cause he dosent want you to break up with him. I say break up with him, he'll keep doing it over and over.
2006-10-12 15:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then why did he go to someone else he will do it again n he may of cheated on you more then what hes telling you dump him theres plenty other men out there
2006-10-12 15:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋