I mean, what just screams louse, sleaze, jerk, etc? I know this is a simple question, but some reasoning behind your answer would be awesome.
2006-10-12 15:17:51 · 13 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not listen. I think it is an 'art' to really listen to what someone is saying. Men think they have to solve the problem when a woman is talking - but sometimes, a woman just needs to be heard - to vent - she'll solve her problem.... but she wants you to be AWARE of it - that's all.
This is fact: Women hear better than men because they have more neurotransmitters going from their ear to their brain. On top of it, women use both hemispheres of their brain when working out a problem. Men typically "listen" by picking out the important words and ignore words like "feel", "believe"., "love"... lots of times they don't mean to - because women usually talk faster than men - (goes along with the hearing thing). Ever notice how women can carry on 2 separate conversations at the same time? They can because they CAN.......
So guys - LISTEN and women, Talk slower.... ya know????? It is one of the MOST important things a man can do to make a woman happy.
2006-10-12 15:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by longhats 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In no particular order, here's a list of the big ones:
1. When he tries to change her before they have even made a commitment - he's saying she's not good enough the way she is.
2. When he stares at her breasts, and not into her eyes - he sees her as a sex object and not a person.
3. When he talks about old girlfriends constantly - he's not over them and wants us to be like them.
4. When he talks about nothing but sex- that's all he wants from us.
5. When he spends his time staring at other women- he's comparing us to them, or looking for his next conquest.
6. Any sign of drug abuse, drinking problems, or other addictions-he's going to try to drag us down that path too.
7. His hands travel where we don't want them-he's pushing for sex.
8. He never asks us about ourselves-he's not interested in our minds, just our bodies.
9. He doesn't at least offer to pay-he's a tight wad.
10. He shows no sign of manners-he's rude and has no respect for us.
11. He calls us generic names, and says it's a pet name, i.e. woman, girl, babe, etc... It says he can't be bothered to remember our real name.
12. Acting cocky or condescending towards us - he thinks he's better than we are.
13. Patronizing us - he thinks he's smarter than we are.
14. Buying her anything that suggests that she needs improvement- he's telling her there is something wrong with her. (Cook books, weight loss aids, sex enhancers, cleaning supplies, clothing in the wrong size, etc...)
There's more, but it would take all night to list them all.
2006-10-12 22:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a few things I had this ex that couldn't hold down a job! We lived together and I was stuck going to work and I was getting calls at work from him going off about how I didn't think that I needed to clean around our home!! I was working over 50 hours a week, paying the bills, putting food on the table and making sure that everyone had what they needed! While he sat at home and did absolutely nothing but sleep, or sit around or go visit his friends, yeah we did have a kid together that he had to watch but if I was the stay home parent what would be expected of me? I would be expected to cook clean do laundry watch the kid etc. That is a LOSER!!! I left him for that reason, and if he wanted to go out with the guys it was no problem with me, but when I went out with the girls he had to come with! wtf I can't go hang with the girls but I am supposed to let him go hang with the guys how f'in fair is that! excuse my language but it just tics me off when a guy thinks like that!
2006-10-12 22:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still a girl not dated and left wondering to go to college but a guy would probably make me feel special by having sexual intercourse with me ooooooooooooooh that is so bad but that's what happens when u feel like u know but u don't know.
2006-10-12 22:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't respect you space. I absolutely hate when a guy does the whole, where are you going, what are you doing, who are you going to be with, and when are you going to call? It's about trust.
2006-10-12 22:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by DBL L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blaming a womens emotional state (crying, anger etc.) on her 'hormones' or 'that time of the month'
2006-10-12 22:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a gym membership, that has worked for a lot of guys when they are ready to break up.
2006-10-12 22:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man that thinks women are only good for a few things...sex, cleaning and cooking.
2006-10-12 22:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I HATE when guys are so sweet with just one girl, then BAM! His friends show up, and you're just that one girl. My guy does that, and I get INCREDIBLY pissed at him for it!
2006-10-12 22:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♪alyssa♫♪ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when they just use us because there lazy and cant cook. we are good for SO much more than that!
2006-10-12 22:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋