When you give oral s*x to someone....do you "expect" to get it in return??
......or...
Have you ever felt that they "expected" you to give it to them after they gave it to you? (if so, how did you handle it?)
curious.
2006-10-12 15:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i give without expecting it. i believe in pleasing her first. but if she wants to return the favor i wont say no but i wont force her. a friend of mine is known to recieve it first before he goes down on her but thats his choice. for me its all about pleasure without pressure and respecting the other person.
2006-10-12 15:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There aren't rules or plans for sex of any kind,after you give/receive oral sex you'll either switch places or move onto something else,either way is good.
Although if you're just having oral sex and leaving it at that,it should definitely go both ways.
So,people "expect" to do something they can get pleasure from after they give it,but it's not really so specific.
Btw,sorry you wanted an adult answer,I just thought i'd put in my two cents. >.<
2006-10-12 22:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't always given it when I got it but I haven't always gotten it when I give it either! I prefer not to give oral sex just because it can be controversial between the couple and you don't want to end up fighting over it!
2006-10-12 22:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't expect it in return. Now if they give it to me and I am not in the mood to give a BJ after they are done, I feel guilty, but not enough to do it.
2006-10-13 01:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Sometimes when we're making love my boyfriend will pull out, scoot down and just give me oral; I don't reciprocate in these cases. But, if that's all we're doing, then yes, it's always tit for tat, so to speak.
2006-10-12 22:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't expect it to go either way. But it's only fair, or for double the excitement do it at the same time, it heightens the experience.
2006-10-12 22:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I supposed most people would want to acheive some form of sexual satisfaction, so they would expect you to provide service after they have done you...
2006-10-13 00:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally i received oral s*x... of course, if my partner wants it, I will do it to her too... coz not all girls like receiving oral s*x... but most guy do love it... =D
2006-10-12 22:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a fair trade. or should be. i go down on her, she goes down on me.
2006-10-12 22:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fair is fair .
2006-10-12 22:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋