Wat do I do when My friend comes up to me and asks me what causes misscariage? she IS pregnant like 12 weeks and she doesnt want it. her twin sister came up to me and told me she's been pressing on her stomach REALLY hard lately and like wanting to fight everyone. could pressing on her stomach kill the baby because if so i gotta let someone know. she also said she wants to take the Exstacy pill...and Drink A LOT! would that kind of stuff kill it... I'm very conserned about her... i just need to know what kind of things could kill a baby so that i can ask her twin if she's doing it! Her twin sister and I want to go see one of our counsellors at school but we dont think its right we might tell her mom or something she may hate us buts we're only doing it for her.
2006-10-12 14:59:56 · 18 answers · asked by babyphatmisssezz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nonono, don't let her drink!! Please don't let her drink. Her baby will turn out retarded. (I'm sorry to all who don't like the use of that word, I really don't like it either) It's called fetal something. I forgot. It was a vocabulary word in health class. xDD But please, just don't let her drink, her baby will be in a worse condition because of this! I would hate for her child to suffer because of her irresponsible actions. I'm sorry, but the thought of a child suffereing because of the parent just makes me so sad. I don't want that to happen at all.
2006-10-12 15:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I wouldn't take any chances if you already know she has been pressing on her stomach and doesn't want the child. No matter how she feels about you now if you choose to do the right thing and consult your counselor or have her sister tell their parents, she will understand in the end. You really care about your friend and I wouldn't take my chances. I could tell you a number of things that could kill a baby but, its different for everyone. Any drug or an unpredicted amount of alcohol will fatally harm any one depending on the person's tolerance and I'm suspecting that you all are young so it will not take much of anything. Fighting, the "X" pill, drinking, medications, what so have you......Baby don't even think that route, just consult a adult that you trust that will react in the best interest of your friend and in this case... her parents. And if you don't want to go to the parents go to your counselor first and he/she will go to the parents expressing a concern. Either way, you and her sister cannot work this out between the two of you. Do the right thing even if it hurts at first, you know you are doing the right thing and she will eventually. I wish you peace, love, and convidence through this troubled time.....
2006-10-12 22:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom, tell a counsler, tell someone! What she is doing is very dangerous to her and her baby. If she is hitting her stomach hard, she could kill the baby, hurt herself. Drinking while pregnant cause fetal alchol syndrome and it causes all kinds of bad things to happen to the baby such as: eye problems, poor suck, cleft lip, cleft palate, small teeth, sensorineual hearing deficits, restricted bone growth, heart defects, renal and kidney defects, fibrosis of the liver, increased infections, immune deficiencies, tumors, irregular hair, and facial deformities. If she doesn't want this baby she needs to talk to a medical professional and either get an abortion or have a HEALTHY pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption. There is just no point in screwing up her own health and that of the baby's and then bringing a sick and disabled child into the world ON PURPOSE. Please help your friend. She will thank you later.
2006-10-13 01:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough situation to be in. It is doubtful if pressing her stomach will abort the baby. Do you live in a state where you can take her to a abortion clinic and they won't contact her parent's. If so consider doing that.
I think the best thing is for her sister to tell her mother she thinks her sister may be pregnant. Only after swearing the mother to secrecy as to who told her and let her parents handle the problem. I guarantee they won't kill her or even beat her they should respond with love and understanding once the yelling stops.
Good luck to you and your friend.
2006-10-12 22:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressing on her stomach won't cause a miscarriage.
Taking drugs or drinking might not either. Instead, she'll end up with a mentally or physically handicapped baby that will be with her until the day she dies, and then become a burden to society.
Is it really fair to bring a child into the world under those circumstances?
What she's doing is dangerous. You need to sit her down and talk to her about it.
2006-10-12 22:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Luann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell an adult your mom, a councillor,a teacher, some one that can talk to her. She may hate you for a while but she'll come around.
trying to abort the baby on her own by drinking or drugs could hurt or kill her! what happens if she doesn't abort the baby and it's born with fetal alchol syndrome or worse. You and her will feel the guilt for the rest of your lives.
2006-10-13 07:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old is your friend? if she is an adolesent then you deffinantly need to tell some one...what could kill the baby, alot of thinks...just pushing on her stomach wouldnt do it but being punched surley would also any blow to the stomach and lifting heavy things. i am sorry about your friend i will pray for her. you really need to tell her mom imediantly, if she doesnt want the baby that is fine there are adoption agencies...tell your freind that, but i dont want her doing something she will regret later, example killing the baby. good luck God Bless.
2006-10-12 22:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremiah's_Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a counselor, tell her mother, tell anyone who is an adult that can offer help. She is causing herself and her baby great danger. Think about how you would feel if something tragic happened and you knew in your heart you could have done something to stop it. Do the right thing and tell someone. For her and for her baby.
2006-10-12 22:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by kamischi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Riding a horse might. But, she made her bed and she has to lay in it! She know what she could be getting into by having sex out of wedlock. Sex is for married adults only! For some reason, you teens don't get that. She can get an abortion if she wants to but she has to let her parents know either way. Her best bet is to give this baby up for adoption.
2006-10-12 22:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to SOMEONE asap. If she didnt wanna a baby she shouldn't of layed down then. How old is she anyway? She must be NUTS. Yeah talk to someone asap. And if she doesnt kill her baby.. its going to have a lot of brain damage or some kinda handicap.
2006-10-12 22:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Christa Joy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋