this boy i used to talk to is calling me all the time now. we stopped talking approximetely 5/6 months and all of a sudden he calls. he left me a couple messages when i missed his call. when i answered two of his calls he didnt say anything i said hello atleast two times. i called back and he asks me can i see him of course i say im too busy. even my brother and a male friend of mine called him back to see what he wanted, but he hangs up in their face. i need help is this stalking behavior?
2006-10-12 14:55:06 · 4 answers · asked by youngj042004 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
we are not minors im 20 he's 18. not a big age difference.
2006-10-12 15:20:14 · update #1
I would say he is acting very strangely, even my husband sitting here next to me says it sounds like stalking to him. I would be very careful, let people know what is going on. And do everything you can to protect yourself, these kind of things usually only get worse. You should probably try to get him to tell you what he wants first. It could merely be him deciding he wants to be with you and is just too shy. If this is the case you have to be up front, ask him his intentions behind the calls, if he just wants to hook up, make sure it is VERY clear if you don't wish the same thing. If his intentions are creepy, or threatening, I'd inform the local police, so they know what is going on in case he gets worse.
2006-10-12 15:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, yet no longer on my own carry some one alongside with you. He won't experience like he's stalking you so in case you convey the way you experience that would fix the region, and if that doesn't artwork tell him if he does not quit you will bypass to the police which could scare him.
2016-12-26 17:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very hard to tell from that limited info. DOn't know how well you know him, or what his personality is like. SOunds to me , more like he has the hots for you, but is painfully insecure or shy and chickens out talking to you when you answer. You should call and get his answering machine and say something like, " I think you know that I knew you called and you are obviously a little nervous about talking, so Please just talk to me, because when you don't it makes me feel a little creeped out" Like I said, you know him better, and if your gut tells you he's a little twisted, you would know better. But most likely just shy.
2006-10-12 15:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Coco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a crush, depending on the ages involved. He may just want to hear your voice......
Make sure your family is aware of this guy and where you are. I am not trying to scare you, but it is a crazy world. You know him better than anyone that can answer this question, listen to your gut instinct.
2006-10-12 15:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by enas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋