I need help to decide who I should start dating. A. My crush. I just recently found out that he likes me back.
Or
B. My friend that I have known since summer who I also like. He has just recently started showing that he likes me.
2006-10-12 14:41:38 · 14 answers · asked by dannyboy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You should start dating A my crush .i just recently found out that he likes me back[ is he a boy] if you like him and he likes you well date him
2006-10-12 14:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by la naca 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to follow your heart. There should be an indication - even if it's just a little more than the other one - of who you like.
There are questions to ask like: who could I spend the rest of my life with, who do i have more in common with, who makes me feel better when i am with them etc.
The risk is that you may like your crush but the real side could come out. Not everyone'sc rush turns out to be who they expected.
Also dating friends seem to work either bad or good. You can just have such a wonderful relationship cause you have the grounding there already. Just make sure, if it doesn't work out, that you can still be friends.
I say follow you heart - take time if you need to.
2006-10-12 22:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with the friend. You guys know a lot about each other already. This gives more chance for the relationship to flourish. But you alone can answer this question for yourself. So, just follow your heart! G'luck!
2006-10-12 22:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just casually date them both until you know them better? Don't go for the casual sex thing, though- very risky, and not cool to be with two people at the same time.
2006-10-12 23:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you know either of them enough to be exclusive. Date both until you have more feelings for one or the other. Be honest and above board though, and they should date other guys too.
2006-10-12 22:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
both, just because you are dating does not mean you are married. the art of dating has been long lost...
2006-10-12 23:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your soul...find your soul mate. To me a crush is just a sexual thing...
2006-10-12 21:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff answer to give u ... but see who u like the most. date em both. ders no harm in it.
2006-10-13 00:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by sugar507 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would stick with the friend. you both already know one another and already have feelings there.
2006-10-12 22:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love in which your heart beats stronger for
2006-10-13 01:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋