Ok, I am not just being paranoid. When I walk down the hall or enter a room, or walk passed people, they look at me. Not just casually. People, especially guys, just look at me pointedly. Now, I used to think I was hideously ugly and that people noticed this. However, I see people who really are ugly or, this sounds mean to say it, physically inferior in some way to me and they don't get looked at. I'm wondering why I get so many looks from people. I've gotten over thinking that I'm hideous and I don't have a common face like most girls, but I can't believe that people are staring at me because I'm a goddess or anything. So why do they stare? I dress normally, have normal hair, and I don't walk around with a scowl on my face. So why do I get so much attention? Maybe I really am ugly? Could someone PLEASE tell me!
2006-10-12 14:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Blackadder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe they are staring because you are staring at them
2006-10-12 14:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by twobitchessplayer(Hank) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a different face then most maybe they find that interesting. That doesn't mean ugly by the way! Heck they might even think your down right beautiful, just because nobody has come and told you doesn't mean you're not.
As for staring, sadly some people missed the manners class on staring.
2006-10-12 14:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try smiling at the people who stare at you. Maybe you have an exquisite face and they're just admiring it. Remember, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
I used to be very conscious of my petite frame (5' nothing) and just like you I used to get stared at. I used to take it negatively until I was told by a good looking guy that my petite frame is actually really adorable. He is now my bf. Lol! So don't get so worked up wondering why people are staring at you. For all you know, they're just admiring you. Be confident and love yourself.
2006-10-12 14:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your a knock out and they are wanting to check out the hot babe.
good luck with the boys but I suggest you do your homework, study hard, and pay attention in class. All the other stuff in school is just baloney. I would not pay too much attention to it. A lot of it is just plain human nature to stare. Don't be offended, that is just the way it is. You will just have to live with it and accept it.
Good Luck with the Stares. Maybe you can stare back at them, have you thought about that one?
2006-10-12 14:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People stare for many reasons,maybe they think you're nice,maybe you are a bit "hideous" or they don't know better.
2006-10-12 14:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by REN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just stare. Happens to me all of the time too. Just ignore them and keep your smile on :)
2006-10-12 14:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that you have a feature that stands out so much people cant help but stare. it could be something like your eye color or hair color but it might be something that other people dont really know so they feel a need to stare to figure it out.
2006-10-12 14:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because people stare doesnt mean your ugly. they might think your really pretty. if it bothers you just ignore them. you never know, staring can mean lots of things.
2006-10-12 14:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by yay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's an air in the way you walk.
2006-10-12 14:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so beautiful, and they can't help but to stare.
2006-10-12 14:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by next.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋