why is it when your not into men they are attracted to you. I am bi but at the moment men just don't turn me on. I had a guy hit on me today and I think i am going to be sick. how do i let him know he is not what I am looking for and I would rather have my self a woman. help.
2006-10-12 14:33:13 · 8 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Usually I just say, "Thank You, but I'm really not interested." I think the best response is usually to be polite, if they keep pushing the issue you may have to be a bit firm about it.
2006-10-12 14:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i usually politely tell the guy... "look, i'm bi sexual. and a guy is NOT what i want right now. i've had my share of fun times with guys and i'm over it for right now. so you just need to turn and walk the other way. because it ain't happening here. sorry bout your bad luck." guys can be such a**holes sometimes.
2006-10-12 21:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by MaryJane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're not interested. You don't even have to bring up the fact that you're looking for a woman. [Especially because sometimes that'll just turn 'em on more.]
2006-10-12 21:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by drunkon80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple say "sorry mate you've got something between your legs i'm just not interested in" then laugh and walk away.
I love seeing the shock on their faces when i tell them that. When i started to walk away they yell out "Your gay??" they get so confused lol
2006-10-13 00:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him sorry im not interested i would rather have a woman but thank you and go about your day
2006-10-12 21:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by brandy t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree just say no thanks, you're sweet. are u interested in being friends with the opposite sex? He's probably attracted to you because are your confidence. People admire other people who are not afraid to be themselves.
2006-10-12 22:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the hell is happening in America today? Aren't you a woman? You need a man to get married before sex, not a woman. YOU ARE ALREADY A WOMANNNNNN. Please Lord have MERCY.
2006-10-12 21:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
just say no thanks.. That's it, sorry
2006-10-12 21:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by traci s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋