im scared my sister may be trying to abort her baby herself.
what signs to i look out for???
2006-10-12 14:33:02 · 19 answers · asked by kinky kat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You just need to get the girl to a doctor... FAST.
If she tries to do a home abortion, a couple of things can happen:
1. She won't lose the pregnancy, but will end up with a severely handicapped child (who would have been healthy without her meddling)
2. She'll do so much damage to her reproductive system by trying to abort the baby that she'll never be able to conceive again or she'll just do so much damage that she'll have nothing but EXCRUCIATING pain to deal with.
It's better to sit her down and have a talk with her and, if that doesn't work, get other family involved.
2006-10-12 14:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any unusual action her part, if she is trying she may change her physical activity hoping that will do it. Also watch her bathroom activity she may start taking different type medication to abort.
Why don't you sit down and ask her if she is and if so why? Show her lots of love and even offer to take her to a clinic to get the abortion if that's what she wants.
You could also try talking her into having the baby and then let some one adopt.it. She has so many options open and self abortion seldom works also it very dangerous. She needs help!
2006-10-12 22:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk her into going to normal abortion clinic. It is much much better this way. Yeah, parents will have to find out, but what will they do? In the most worst case scenario wthey will beat her up. Most likely, they will be dissapointed and scream and yell. But that's all they can really do.
If she'd doing crazy things like lifting something heavy, jumping off high things, taking drugs, taking morning-after pills - this is what people try, because they have heard of other people having miscarrieges because of this. You have a miscarriage only if you are likely to have one in the first place. This almost never works when you want to miscarry. The result is usually a deformed child or hurt mother. Just go to abortion clinic.
2006-10-12 22:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sweetheart if your sister is trying to do such a thing I would most definitely try and talk to her and see if this really is the case. Don't overlook this because this is no minor problem. You may not want to but, you may have to talk to your parents about this-just think about it, she's only reacting in such a way because she is scared herself and doesn't know which way to go and you can truly help her by finding her the right help... because you care. She could be taking hot baths or taking certain medications or doing too much physical activity, and if she is old enough.... drinking heavily... Sweetheart, please take my advice. You seem to care about your sister and the best thing to do is to get someone to her that can help her- not judge her or talk down to her but, help her! I wish you and your sister the best of luck!
2006-10-12 21:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big safety issue here. Beside she may end up ending her own life while trying to end the life of an innocent baby. Please talk to her and your parents. If your parents are not an option, you need to speak to a trusted adult who will help.
2006-10-12 21:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is over you. The only thing you can so is talk to her. But I suggest that if you think that she is putting herself in danger then you need to get her help. even call the police if you have to. good luck and hope this is not the case.
2006-10-12 21:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your parents. Think of that innocent baby who deserves a chance at life
2006-10-12 22:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by ragezgurl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the abortion drug... is available through planned parenthood. If she doesn't want a pregnancy, it should be terminated with the help of professionals.
2006-10-12 21:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by anniehasagun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shld look out for sighs like :
she is in deep thoughts . very very deep thoughts . (maybe she'll cry)
she tells you she's really scared and have no idea what to do .
FIND A DOCTOR , NOW , BEFORE THINGS GET OUT OF HAND !!!!
God bless .
2006-10-12 21:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by precious moments babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents or call police. She needs help. If she is successful it is bad, if she is unsuccessful it is bad. And if she is only partially successful she could give birth to a baby with severe problems. Either scenerio is a terrible one. SO PLEASE GET HELP.
2006-10-12 21:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by kamischi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋