I have not seen or spoken to her in about 5 years. I googled her and found her myspace. She moved after a hard time with her father and never called me. Should I really spend the time to contact her? Or should I not bother? She was my best friend! If I do spend the time and she never cares to respond, I will be devastated.
2006-10-12 14:29:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Anthony (pimp69): the indigoeds suck. Stop talking about them!
2006-10-12 15:47:12 · update #1
YA do it!
i support you 10000000000000%
and im pretty sure the Indago Girls got your back on this one!
2006-10-12 15:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just send her a short message saying hi and briefly tell her what you've been up to and ask how she is doing.
Don't go into too much detail, and don't get into what happened in the past. She'll be more likely to respond if she knows you aren't going to grill her for not talking to you or get all personal right away.
If she does respond, great! If she doesn't, that's fine. You've survived without her for five years, there's no need to be devastated. Don't look at it like you'll be crushed if she doesn't respond. Just look at like you'll be delighted if she does respond, but if not, that's ok, too.
There are plenty of people out there who would love to have a good friend! Don't waste your time and energy on people who have moved on. Regardless of whether she stays in touch this time, get out there and make new friends!
Good luck!
2006-10-12 14:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should give it a try. What can it hurt? If she doesn't respond don't worry about it maybe she has gone through some things in the past 5 years. Don't take it personally
2006-10-12 14:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by I Care 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people move they get caught up in their new lives and tend to loose old connections. If you were best friend I would definately contact her. I bet she will be really glad to hear from you and tell you all her new stories. If not then at least you tried. Couldn't hurt.
2006-10-12 14:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as it doesn't interfere with your life at the present. I had a problem like this. It didn't really benefit me nor did it harm me. My life has already moved on. My past relationships with people are not the same. I hope I helped you out some.
2006-10-12 14:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ricki H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her, risk the devastation, or you'll live in ignorance. Then if you fail, find a shoulder to let it all out on (but that won't happen, will it?).
Best of luck.
2006-10-12 14:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it!!! And don't be devastated! Some people just move on easier and don't like to look back, but most people wouldn't react that way.
2006-10-12 14:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by xxthespianxx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write her. If she was a good friend of yours, she will like to be contacted by you, won't bother her. She will probably like to clean the dust away of your relationship.
2006-10-12 14:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know till you try. Something like that went on with me. Just send a nice email and then see what she says.
2006-10-12 14:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sure she has thought of you 2 if you were truly best friends whats the harm........if she doesnt respond u will know what do u have to lose? her friendship again......to have tried and failed is better than to never have tried
2006-10-12 14:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by lil ole me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say write her and see what she has been up to. If for some reason she wants to forget her past, it's all cool. At least you tried. Good luck!
2006-10-12 14:37:24 · answer #11 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋