i told some one something today which i should of told them a couple of weeks ago i had wanted to tell them but i had my reasons now the person does not beleive me i had my reasons which i explained to them but they dont want to know how do i convince them i was not lying not that there speaking to me at the moment
2006-10-12 14:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its to complicated to go into but something happened a while ago and i told this person it all got sorted out but decided to tellthis person the outcome of this thing a few weeks later which has resulted in this person not beleiving anything i say i cant talk to this person and ive tried maybe i should forget about this person
2006-10-12 14:24:46 · update #1
my best ever i dont think so to the last answer
2006-10-12 16:18:10 · update #2
If you hide something important, you will lose the other person's trust. People will be afraid that you are not honest, open and completely reliable, and that you could play a trick on them any moment.
You have to promise you will NEVER hide something important again and DO IT! That way you will regain the trust of the others and your confidence.
If you say something that hurts, at least people will know! They can forgive you if they know on time...please, express yourself, you can avoid sooo many misunderstandings and it will hurt less.
2006-10-12 14:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do anything wrong, and have made the attempt to explain yourself and the info. that you had to share, then you've done all that you can do. Give things some time to settle down, and then I'd try writing them a letter, people will often read what they choose not to hear. Good luck, unfortunately you only have control over your actions, if they are willing to end your friendship over this situation, maybe you are better off without them. Hopefully someday they will learn to importance of a good friend.
2006-10-12 14:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person your sorry. Everybody makes mistakes sometimes
2006-10-12 14:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar Sweet,
please provide more details...you sound confused.
2006-10-12 14:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think before speak, check yourseld if you said something upset him/her if it happens try to explain, she/he will listen to you, be patient
2006-10-12 14:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the subject. Be more specific on what was it that you didn't say and your reasons.
2006-10-12 14:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by godfathermock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it.... if something as dumb as what ur tryna say ruined ur friendship then u really didn't have a good friend now did u?
2006-10-12 14:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a choice and you need to live with it.. if you really believe you did the right thing then don't sweat it and let her blow off steam and see what she does...
2006-10-12 14:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for starters, you could learn to use punctuation. then write them a letter. if they still want to act a damn fool, kick their @ss's to the curb. you don't need their drama in your life.
2006-10-12 14:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋