i was carrying my best friend back and forth to the doctors taking her to phyical therapy all the time she was having sex with my husband get this he and her had a accident coming from motel she trying to get money from my insurance company and the borrowed truck he got from his father when accident happen isn,t that some crap.
2006-10-12 14:02:28 · 80 answers · asked by annjilena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First thing is that I say find another friend because this girl is not your friend as you thought, and for this I am sorry for her because she is the one that has truly lost her friend,
Just close the door on her, and forget her.
As for your Husband, he has taken the Beautiful Gift of your giving love and has soiled it with his actions.
I have always believed that before any one husband or wife gets them self in such a position.... they both had time to think about the familys and that one very special lady
while taking off their pants and slipping under the sheets with this so called friend.
he had time to think and he did think about you, but his choice was her, over your Love.
Pack your husband bags and change the locks and give him the high fly.
Because if he has fallen once he will fall again trust me.
And then go and spoil yourself, message, facial..hair restyed the works.
and then step back and look into the mirrow and smile and then turn around and seeing the Beauty that is reflecting back from the mirror is you Kid.
And as you can see you are still a knock out Lady, and you still have the magic.
Then when you return home remove all photos of the man that took your wonderful and Beautiful Gift of Your Love and cheappened it and that makes him the looser.
And always remember you are the Gift, and you will always be the Gift and settle for nothing but the very truth and the very best of your beautiful life.
And take your first step forward into you new and wonderest life.
And your pain will pass and your happyness will be found once again to be truly shared in Truth and Love.
Candyman
2006-10-12 14:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by candyman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you didn't have a best friend and as for your husband, well he is a man and not justifying his actions , it would be hard too turn down sex. He should have told you about it as soon as it happened and either divorced you or got your forgiveness or permission to continue the affair. Secrets in a marrage can never lead to anything good. Be honest if nothing else.
2006-10-12 14:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is certainly some crap.
I'm sorry to hear that the two people you trusted the most have betrayed you.
However, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. And, now that you know what people are capable of, you know better and are a stronger human being.
They will both get bad karma and you'll get your dose of good karma for being such a good wife and friend that you were being.
I hope all is well, even thought I am sure you're heart broken at the moment.
I would suggest you get counseling because if not you could be scarred for life and have a hard time trusting.
2006-10-12 14:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - she's not "your best friend"..... and I never have blamed the "other" person who supposedly is interfereing in a marriage. If your husband/partner is straying, it means that there is a problem with the marriage. Temptation is all over. My husband is in a position where he is approached a lot by younger woman every day - but is not interested. It's because our marriage is a true commitment, to each other - and it's over 20 years....
If I were you, I'd certainly be questioning my husband - he is the one that is "commited" to you. Maybe you both should review your vows with each other and make sure you're on the same page. A marriage is a 2-way contract and promise....A "best friend" would have never put herself or your husband in that position - but he is really the one who made the decision.....
2006-10-12 14:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by longhats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sure is - but don't be too hard on them.
It may have just been a physical thing.
Us guys are quite happy to have sex with a woman and not even ask her name. It doesn't mean we don't love our wives. Maybe you haven't been 'looking after him'?
It could be the same with your friend. Some women need sex more than others. Maybe her husband wasn't looking after her that way.
In a stupid way it's possible that they felt it wasn't so bad having sex with each other rather than with complete strangers. Almost a bit like keeping it in the family.
All this probably won't make you feel any better, but I repeat, just because he has been having sex with someone else it doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore.
2006-10-12 14:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come to realize that most women are untrustworthy I feel bad for you I don't know if this will help you in the future but it works for me and my husband if I'm not home no girls are allowed in the house and the same if he is not there no men are allowed its not a matter of not trusting just a matter of respect. I know you said they went to a motel I guess your rule should have been he is not allowed to have sex with other people(sorry just a little joke) hope you have better luck in the future
2006-10-12 14:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about karma. Well, they had it coming, didn't they? If I were in your situation, I would lose this so called friend of yours and the husband. I would not be able to tolerate that kind of betrayal coming from two people who are supposed to care about u, one of them being the one with a commitment to u.
My advice: Get rid of that so called friend of yours and throw your husband to the curb ASAP.
Thank God my husband is also my best friend.
2006-10-12 14:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your husband's well being, encourage your best friend to keep having sex with him. Or better yet, offer to join them for a 'ménage à trois'. This would blow his mind.
2006-10-12 14:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a male so I will answer in the other around (my best friend having sex with my wife). If tht's the case, I will find an opportunity and sneak behind my best friend's back and castrate him when he is not aware!! Cut off his coo coo bird and make chee cheong funn (a kind of food with lots of sauce) with it and then feed it to the dogs.
That's what I will do.
Rgds
2006-10-12 14:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by caterpillar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I am so sorry. What a low blow. Toss both of their sorry asses out onto the street and don't ever speak to either of them again. If she tries to sue your insurance, say she is lying and that she was not in the vehicle because she was at home with you! Don't let that wench take your man and jack up your insurance premium(s) at the same time!
Best of luck to you sweety. My ex husband was a hoe, too.
I HATE A HOMEWRECKING HO!
2006-10-12 14:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋