Ok I really need help with this one. At my high school I sit at a table with a bunch of my friends but some of the other ppl that sit there are really beginning to piss me off. Half of the group sort of had a big falling out during the summer and we basically don't even talk anymore..so why are they still sitting with us. I want to find a nice way to resolve the issue so i don't seem like a total *****..help!!!
2006-10-12 13:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by cali grl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask one of them hey what ever happen we use to be such good friends? Then if they are rude to you then say why is it your still sitting w/ us? If they are cool then fix the problem, life is too short to have enemies
2006-10-12 13:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why are you still sitting with them?
Think about it... why does one group have to move. IF both of the two groups sat there from the beginning, who decides who should move. Technically, to them they may be wandering the same thing.
If you personally don't like it then move to another table. It's a free country, they can sit where they want and they shouldn't have to move.
2006-10-12 20:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two solutions, one, a separate table, or talk to overcome what ever happened during summer. If you don't talk to each other, nothing will change.
Time to forgive and move on, with your lives.
2006-10-12 20:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that is kinda mean.. but if you dont want them to sit there then dont talk to them just ignore them and maybe they will get the point. Or just swith to another table.
2006-10-12 20:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by mstycain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there isnt really a way to ask them to leave without them getting mad at you or atleast taking it to offense. trust me, ive gone through the same exact thing before myself. its like messed up. lol
2006-10-12 20:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up and get over it.. You should be able to sit wherever you want, if you dont want them sitting there then move!
2006-10-12 20:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by 9929 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to grow up, you'll have much larger problems than this, just deal with it, its nto like they are killing you, this is american, they can sit where they choose
2006-10-12 20:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not ask all of them what the hell up. get it all out clear the air of sort
2006-10-12 20:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to reconcile! It's called forgiveness.
2006-10-12 20:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell them to stop being jerks, or they can go away and jerk off away from you and yor friends
2006-10-12 20:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mark Antony 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋