Is this an acceptable relationship?
2006-10-12 13:22:44 · 49 answers · asked by Minnesota Mom 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I bet he's one happy little boy.
2006-10-13 17:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A romantic relationship between a 14 year old and a 21 year old?
In most states that would be considered statutory rape.
Make sure you know what is going on.
2006-10-12 13:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by vabanu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for 1 thing it is against the law.
2: What would a 21 year old want with a 14 year old kid.
3: Do you think it is acceptable????
Child molesters are a sick bunch of people and that is what she is a child molester.
2006-10-12 16:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by valarie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... take that woman to the side and let her know you intend to put her a#s in jail if she doesn't back off... 14yo is a tender age and she could do some major damage... especially when the love of a woman can and will feel stronger than the love of his family... he could turn his back on you... stop it before he gets in to deep... it's like being kidnapped by a cult... once he falls for her 100%... it will be hard to get him back... I have seen this happen first hand... Good Luck!!!
2006-10-12 16:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you supposed to be joking or something?!?!...Why would you put a question like that on here when it is your son!...I mean 21 year old woman with a 14 year old boy...that is statutory rape!....so yeah you should be involved!!!...DUH!
2006-10-15 04:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by **Steelers_Fan_86** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my 14yr old I would not have to come to yahoo to ask such a crazy question.I would probaly be sitting in jail for kicking a sluts @ss.But then again if you gotta ask this question then Im sure you made alot of mistakes with him in life and what would 1 more mistake hurt?But I really think you are a very bored person and posted this question to give you something to do.
2006-10-12 14:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be concerned. It is not right for your son to be dating a 21 yr. old women. You may need to talk to your son and then the women. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-12 13:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by coasergoddes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if your son was 21 an messin wit a 14yr old wat would u say. Pretty pathetic, right?? U shouldnt trust her. If she got 2 mess wit a boy 14 then that mean she cant get a dude her own age. How would u feel if that was your lil girl??That must mean sumthin wrong wit her. U the parent so stop it. ~*U Live & U Learn*~
2006-10-12 13:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by 8_letters_3_words_1_meaning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shocked that you need to ask anyone this.
He is 14. FOURTEEN. I'm almost 20 and I think of anyone under 17 as a "kid", so the idea of dating someone that young... I'd feel like I was dating my son or something.
You need to call the cops on her. She should NOT be dating him. He's too young. No one should be sexually active before their 16th birthday, really.
Hopefully he won't be completely scarred by this.
2006-10-12 15:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaaah. No.
Not unless you want to risk having him a) become a father b) catch a disease. c) do lots of things a 21 year old is allowed to do and a 14 year old shouldn't.
2006-10-12 14:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not an acceptable realtionship! My rule: no one more than a year younger or older than me!
Yes, be concerned.
2006-10-12 13:33:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋