Normally during lunch, I sit in my car in the parking lot of my high school and relax in the car with my girlfriend of about a year and 8 months. Well, in the dream I had last night, it's lunch time and I see myself sitting in my car, but it's not with my girlfriend, it's with another girl that I don't even know. We don't even talk or know each other, yet I do have her in all my classes. In the dream, I am confessing my feelings towards her about how I was so attracted to her since the first year of high school and she does the same. I just want to know what I should take in from this, whether it means something. I just do not know how to interpret this myself.
2006-10-12 13:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by pnoyballa23_69 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
The thing about this girl is that in real life, I also find her really attractive, ever since the first year of high school, but I just haven't been able to talk and get to know her. But throughout the day, I always see her looking at me and I know she sees me looking at her. As pretty as the girl may be, I will not go behind my girlfriend's back and mess around with this new girl. I just want to know what this may mean. Not suggesting that I'm actually going to cheat on my girlfriend for somebody whose in all my classes and I just happened to dream about. I haven't even dreamt about my own girlfriend yet, but I dream about her. It all seems strange to me...
2006-10-12 16:41:03 · update #1
You are still very young, Why settle down to only 1 girl? You should talk to your girlfriend and find out what she thinks... can you see other people and not loose her? would she be open to that? Be honest with her- and the dream...
Well I think it is telling you that you should be open to the possibilities, and whats wrong with talking to the gother girl can you be friends with her? If your girlfriend trusts you that should be fine- does she have any male friends?
Everyone could use friends you can never have too many- open the channels of communication with both of these girls- Life is too short for regrets!
2006-10-12 17:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by admiredi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams arise because we suppress emotions or desires which we feel are 'wrong' or 'bad', so we push those emotions down into our subconcious. They should be examined in the context of what's happening in your life right now. Your own feelings and the unfolding of events in the dream are more important than the meaning of items or objects, per se.
I think this dream is about your relationship with your girlfriend. However, without knowing more about the relationship itself, I can only guess at what the true problem is. Here are 4 possibilities.
- You love your girlfriend very much and hopes she loves you back just as much. But you can't bring yourself to tell her, so your dream substitutes her with someone else, so that you succeed in making that confession.
- You have doubts as to your girlfriend's true feelings and don't feel assured of her love. You sense she is not who she appears to be. So although you are confessing your love, the dream shows your girlfriend to be another person.
- Your feelings for your girlfriend may be fading, but you don't want to admit it for one reason or another. The dream indicates that you want to escape this romantic predicament, so it makes you confess your love to someone else.
- You may indeed have secret feelings for this other girl in your classes. The dream is a simple wish fulfillment dream.
Take a good look at how you really feel about your girlfriend. And about what you really think of her, whether she's sincere, fathful, etc. Also look at whether you have any feelings for the other girl. Be honest with yourself and admit you are feeling any doubts, fears or desires. You will then be in a better position to deal with your real-life situation.
Good luck.
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2006-10-12 16:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Spica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an underlying attraction for this girl. Dreams, they say, are mainly ways for your mind to play out different case senarios and bring forth things buried in your subconscious. So, although you are i'm sure completely faithful to your girlfriend (a buried thought of this other girl is being entertained in your dream). You are wondering what if i was with her instead? This doesn't mean you want to leave your girlfriend..just that you are curious about this girl (which isn't something you have complete control over). it might mean that you are loosing some interest in your current girlfriend though (which is somewhat natural in long relationships-especially in highschool). if you find that you really do like this other girl though..make sure you're fair to your current girlfriend and break it off...she i'm sure deserves (as do you) the chance to be happy. : )
2006-10-12 15:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by luckmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. there is this site called: www.freakydreams.com that can interpret ur dreams for you. here's what i got for urs...
Your Dream: Normally during lunch, I sit in my car in the parking lot of my high school and relax in the car with my girlfriend of about a year and 8 months. Well, in the dream I had last night, it's lunch time and I see myself sitting in my car, but it's not with my girlfriend, it's with another girl that I don't even know. We don't even talk or know each other, yet I do have her in all my classes. In the dream, I am confessing my feelings towards her about how I was so attracted to her since the first year of high school and she does the same.
Words like car: Personal power. Ego.
Words like high: Glamour. Sexual invitation. Flirtation. Power.
Words like school: Discipline. Instruction. You have the skills to resolve a problem.
Words like car: Personal power. Ego.
Words like girlfriend: Feminine ideal, either integrated or rejected. Ready to accept or failed to a accept within yourself.
Words like year: Change. Time. Ready for a new start.
Words like night: Darkness. Mystery. Unconscious contents. There is a mystery that you want to penetrate.
Words like time: Irreversible. Continuity. Arrival or departure of feelings. Organizing your inner self.
Words like car: Personal power. Ego.
Words like girlfriend: Feminine ideal, either integrated or rejected. Ready to accept or failed to a accept within yourself.
Words like girl: Learning to be receptive. Happiness and tranquility.
Words like or: Restricted vision. Cloud. Screen .Looking to hide certain feelings.
Words like year: Change. Time. Ready for a new start.
Words like high: Glamour. Sexual invitation. Flirtation. Power.
Words like school: Discipline. Instruction. You have the skills to resolve a problem.
2006-10-12 13:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥_mrs.smith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't take it too seriously seeing as how everybody has many dreams a night and most of them are forgotten. Who knows? You could of had several dreams about different situations with many different girls but you have not the slightest idea because you can't remember. Bottom line, if dreams were meant to be taken seriously wouldn't we remember them all instead of the ones that are supposedly displayed by our "sub conscience"?
2006-10-12 15:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are your hopes, fears, and past experiences your subconcious mind plays out and relives. Your mind is telling you you really don't know your girlfriend as well as you should. Most dreams can't be remembered. You are really wanting your relationship to progress to the next level with your girl but you are unsure whether to tell her so you do it in your dreams.
2006-10-12 13:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those are the photos that stood out maximum to me. So I regarded them up in a dream dictionary. you are able to derive diverse meanings by ability of understand-how the emotion in the back of the image on your dream. This internet site additionally has a specialist dream analyzing provider, yet I truthfully have by no ability used it. abode (family contributors) in case you dream of traveling your previous family contributors abode you will pay attention some very sturdy information. If the abode itself, is in a dilapidated undertaking and wide-unfold forget, this then is an omen which you will quickly pay attention of the demise of a particular relative or an exceedingly expensive pal. in case you pass abode and discover each and every thing plenty comparable to it became and you sense and show exhilaration interior the dream you will discover love and exhilaration on your cutting-edge abode. backyard A backyard crammed with sparkling becoming vegetables denotes which you would be rich on condition which you workout diligence in taking good care of your company. in the adventure that your dream backyard is of vegetation and sparkling eco-friendly trees then it foretells of a actual love and a delightful abode in stunning environment. could the backyard be loss of existence then you extremely could take steps to shelter what you're advertising. Spirits in case you dream of conversing with an unknown spirit you will pay attention for somebody who's attempting to deceive you. oftentimes if the spirit is straightforward and welcomed it rather is an illustration of super sturdy luck and/or sturdy fortune in company affairs.
2016-10-02 06:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spirita Explains Your Dreams
http://spirita.blogspot.com/
2006-10-13 03:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try putting the dream in context with your personality and your current emotional status. Look into things that have recently occured between you and your gf as well.
2006-10-12 13:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by pantherpink25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your girlfriend and go out with the "girl of your dreams".
2006-10-12 13:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Thunor232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋