me and princess broke up for about 2 months, she was talking to other guys, and lied to me about it. so yeah now she get very angry when i go out with my friends, when i spend time with her she acts stupid with me and has her long face. i love her, when i go out with my friends, i try to invited her but she already asleep or doing sometime. and we also have a son together. please give some good advice
2006-10-12 13:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by savage_linx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry for not saying, we are back together, she said she want me to spend more time with my friends, i do spend time with her, i go out with my friends when she is asleep, yes i do tell her, and she says that fine. but she gets mad
2006-10-12 13:29:43 · update #1
She still loves you, and wants to be back together. It seems that she doesn't care about you going out with friends, it's the acting single part. When you guys are still close and hang out, it breaks her heart to see you "acting" like you enjoy the single life. Get back together with her. She most likely wants to hang out as a couple, not friends. (been there done that)
2006-10-12 13:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very insecure. That can be a good and a bad thing.
I think she loves you very much, but something has made her fear you being away from her and with your friends.
Some women think when there man is out with friends, he is flirting and picking up on other women to impress his buddies.
Maybe because she lied to you, she is now afraid its pay back time and you may lie to her.
Sit her down and tell her how much you love and care for her, women need to hear this ALOT...Some women need to hear it everyday. God made us women emotional, and even more so, when we have a child with a man, we feel a connection and want to be treated super special by the childs father.
Try real hard to get her to go out with you sometime, after you talk, and while you are out, with your friends and her, treat her like a queen. Let her know, and show her she has nothing to worry about.
It all takes time, especially if there has been problems in the relationship. If you have a son together, try hard to make your family stay together.
Tell her and show her everyday, that she is the world to you, Thank her for your son. In time she will gain her confidence back, and she will show you these things in return.
Hope this helps some...
Remember this...It takes years to build trust with someone, and only one minute to break trust.
Good Luck!
2006-10-12 20:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what i see she wants you to spend all your time with her. That is not a good thing cause we all need time for ourselves and think what you are doing is not wrong. She needs to find a happy place with this and let you do this, I think that you are a good guy for inviting her and she whould be glad that you did cause that means that you are doing anything wrong. Maybe when she gets older she will understand better. You might could try telling her that one night a week you 2 have date night. It is a night where you 2 do something just the 2 of you.
2006-10-12 22:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends... if you count sitting on the couch and watching TV spending time with her then she has a right to be upset. If you take her and the baby places.. or spend quality time with them at home, or still take just her on dates and arrange for a sitter, or show her you love her by doing things around the house AND taking time with mini you so she can have some quality quiet time alone.. then she is being unreasonable. If you are not doing those things while kickin it with the boys.. then you are being a jerk and she has every right to be upset.
2006-10-12 20:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have a new baby then you can put the full blame on hormones. I am sure that she does not feel all that desirable with just having a baby and is a bit insecure with herself. I am sure that her indescretions may also have her a bit worried considering the karma factor.
Give her lots of compliments and support. As she becomes more secure in the relationship and the baby blues disappear, your relationship will be back on track.
Once your relationship is solid, you both will want to be out with friends. It will all come in time.
Hang in there!
2006-10-12 20:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by chi chi's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when a woman does something it is okay, when a man does something it is unbelievable. You each should have your own friends you occasionally go out and do things with. I had very few my marriage was my life, now my wife wants nothing to do with me and I am left to start over with very little friends.
2006-10-12 20:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by jbrown280000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shw wants you to spend time with your friends but she wants you to go to bed with her and fall asleep with her soemtimes to.. don't always be gone at night, maybe don't spend time with your friends so much when she is asleep it will change alot.
2006-10-12 21:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is a self-absorbed control freak. I'd say get out of the relationship. You don't need someone guiliting you out for hanging out with you buddies!
2006-10-12 20:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should spend more time with her.. and your son! FAMILY TIME! If I was her.. I would most likely be mad because You probably don't spend enough time with your family! But You should talk to her.. Don't ask us.. ask her..
2006-10-12 20:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should talk to her about your son an y u guys should work things out
2006-10-12 20:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Always Jolly AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋