He [my crush] is in one of my classes, but should I write him a note that just says [literally] 'Hi.' and give it to him? lol. or have the guy in front of me pass it to him since we can't really talk in the class? What's the worst he could do if I gave it to him? I've liked him for 2 years we haven't really talked in a while. I know it's gonna be weird, but I gotta break the ice somehow. I can't take it anymore.
2006-10-12 13:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm 15 years old almost everything I do would be 'immature' I don't know what love is remember?
2006-10-12 13:25:21 · update #1
Sending notes is fun, but you have to make sure that your teacher doesnt catch you. They can get very mad if you do, and they might even read it out loud! Even if it just says "hi", ppl will laugh and giggle. You dont want to embarrass urself or him. If you cant talk in class, then look for him out of class. Im sure ur school has recesses. Or you could just look for him when he has a lot of free time. Just walk up to him and say hi. Unless he's deaf or mean, he'll say hi back, and would probably expect you to state a reason as to why you're there. Of course, it'd be dumb to just scream, "I LOVE YOU!" That's dumb at ANY age. But you can just ask him what the homework was or ask him to help you with it. I'm sure he'll say yes. It wouldn't be weird to ask someone to help you with your homework. My classmates ask each other all the time, regardless of whether or not they know that person. This girl walked up to me and asked me what question number 9 was, and we didnt even know each others' names! If you can get him to hang out w/ you on the pretense of getting homework help, then you can talk about casual things with him. He'll answer and maybe he'll talk about something further away from casual topics, like a specific movie or how much he hates/likes the teacher. While the two of you talk and work on the assignment, you can create a small bond that you can build up. Thank him for helping w/ ur hw, even if u didnt need help. Guys like to think they're smart, but not nerdy. Then, if ur class has group work that lets you choose partners, you can ask him to be yours (unless one of you has already promised sum1 else that you'd be their partner). Just act normal and eventually, you'll become friends. Once you have reached that, you can start working towards something more.
Good luck!
2006-10-12 17:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by fliptastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No notes,,you will come off as immature.No getting other people involved either,,that seems immature too & it will end up ruining things for you.The best thing that you can do is smile a sincere smile.If he is interested,,he will talk to you.Make it easy for him to talk to you.Be friends first.
2006-10-12 13:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think very much you should write note! If he write to you back he like you for sure! Maybe he shy to talk to you to i would be i am shy girl.
2006-10-12 15:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just right him the note
2006-10-12 13:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll hun i recomend the direct approch go to him and just start talkin .. i promise it will be ok and you will feel so much better !!
2006-10-12 13:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you don't have anything to lose!! Just do it!
2006-10-12 13:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess u could do that
2006-10-12 15:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do that....it will break the ice!!!!
2006-10-12 13:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋