Every time my husband wants to have sex. I do it. Not just because he wants it but because I do too. I have a very high sex drive. We have been married five years and I have never said No. Is that bad? Should I play hard to get sometimes and tease him? I am not into playing games but if it might be a good thing that would be okay. I am always up for improving things.
2006-10-12 13:12:30 · 35 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes do it and the next time you have sex it will be hot!
2006-10-12 13:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should play hard to get just once and see if that spices up your sex life though your husband must be pretty happy if you've been married for five years. Playing hard to get might make things more exciting for the both of you.
2006-10-12 13:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by rednickel525 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO WAY!!! It's not bad at all! But then again, if you make it into a situation where you've got him on pins and needles anticipating the next romp then yeeeehaaa! And maybe he could do the same to you! LOL There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to spice it up a bit. If he doesn't seem like he's into something like that just ask him HIS thoughts on doing things a little differently.
2006-10-12 13:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, that would not be natural for you two and it might even be misunderstood. If you have a happy and healthy sex life, enjoy it. And if you want to spice things up, use your imagination. Try wearing something sexy for a change. Do it outside or in some public place. Just have fun without any unnecessary mind games.
2006-10-12 13:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you enjoy sex, why resist it? You would do some incredible damage to his self esteem in ways you would never imagine. He would not, could not understand. Even if you told him, the deepest part of him would fear you were lying all this time.
If you're going to tease him, tease him with seduction, not reclusion. To work the way you want, refusal should be insincere, followed by unquestioned acceptance. Play fantasy games, not head games.
2006-10-12 13:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by antirion 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, what a lucky man your husband is! Being that you have a high sex drive, chances are if you try to hold back and say no, you're only gonna be teasing yourself. Just try different things to spice it up a bit. (if you both are up for it)
2006-10-12 13:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't feel like doing it, then say no. But if you are wanting to say no just to play hard to get then that isn't going to prove anything, only frustrate him. There are other ways of playing hard to get, like making him work for it in a playful way but not hold out or holding it over his head. That is just wrong and could actually do damage to your relationship.... There is no fun in that, now is there?
2006-10-12 13:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after all the BS he has put you through, I wouldn't give him anything but the divvorce papers. I agree that he was treating you good, then maybe it would be worth it but under the circumstances,it sounds like you are keeping him around just so you have someone to help satisfy your sex drive and that can be done with much pleasure in other ways.
2006-10-13 07:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion the number one most important thing in marriage is honesty with each other. That being said, if you like it, he likes it, the frequency is just fine with both of you and you are having no problems, why rock the boat?
Now, it is ok to play hard to get, as long as you both know it is just a sexual game. If you are speaking of it in that context, have fun!
But I see no reason to play head games with him to prove some sort of obscure point.
Count your blessings, girl.
Best wishes
2006-10-12 14:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why create a problem where there isn't one? If you both want sex at the same time, do it. Do you realize how lucky you are. I don't know how rejecting your husband can be a good thing.
2006-10-12 15:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have a good thing going and should keep it that way.
There are other ways to spice it up. I live with a constant tease and believe me its not a good thing. If you want to tease him, do it as a sort of foreplay and not to tease and go without when you both want it.
2006-10-12 13:25:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋