OK I was pregant and now my husband is cheating on me with his old girlfriend. What should I do???
2006-10-12 12:37:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do the same thing you would do if you were not pregnant. not sure what that would have to do with your decision.
2006-10-12 12:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by harold p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, what if he gets her pregnant too? Then both of you will be pregnant and he'll probably find someone else to cheat with. I'm pregant now and my husband would never cheat. He's too thrilled about our baby on the way and making sure I have everything I'm craving than to give MY time to some other woman.
2006-10-12 12:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is this the first time he has ever cheated? If not yes, break up with him. He will keep doing it. If it is the first time and he is perfect other than that you may have a chance. If he is truley sorry and begging you back and willing to tell her in front of you that it was a huge mistake and that he loves you and what he did was wrong then he may truley be sorry. I would try to completley avoid him for a few days and not take his calls , not see him, etc. I would make him beg for a few days so, he knows what it is that he almost lost. You can get through this but, only if he realizes what he couold lose. I would make him SWEAR that it is okay for you to check his phone, pager, car pockets email, voicemail etc. for as long as you need to to make you feel better. I would make him give you all of his passwords to everything he has. If he is being faithful then he will be willing to do this.Good Luck
2006-10-12 14:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by tali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only stay with him if he is totally done with cheating, and he is completely committed to you and the child.
Otherwise why be married when the guy is cheating.
Get away if he isn't willing to be the husband and father he should be. Does he remember the marriage vows?? Love honor trust and be faitful to you.
If you do leave him, make sure you get court ordered child support. He is the one who has F-up this family.
YOu and the baby are worth a good man!!!
2006-10-12 12:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about the future and how this will effect your life as well as your babies life. In my opinion, you should leave him, because this problem won't go away. This will benefit your child because they won't have to deal with the pain of a divorce. It will also instill good judgment in your child so that they don't think that they can do the same and get away with it, just like their father. You might consider abortion, depending where you stand on that. Just make sure you do it safely and legally if you choose this route. If that isn't an option, help your unborn baby out by getting rid of a major problem.
2006-10-12 13:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Unsure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't leave, but I should have. He didn't stop - only for a little while then he would start again. I only postponed the inevitable. I should have left way before I did. If you think he will stop, that is up to you ....but if you don't think he will you really should leave now and save a lot of time. The heartache will still be there and it will hurt as much now as it will then, but you may be able to find your Mr. Right if you don't wait.
2006-10-12 12:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would leave. What kind of example would both of you be setting for your child. He would be showing them that he does not truely care about you and that he can treat you any way he like and get away with it. Then the child will think that it is ok to be in that typr of relationship. And the child will think well my mommy lets my daddy do whatever he wants and the child will not understand and respect the institution of marriage
2006-10-12 12:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by CHOCOLATE_SCORP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would absolutly!!
He's a dishonest person, you want that kind of person as your child's father? You'll end up leaving him eventually. Trust me its a million times harder to separate when your 2 year old is crying for his father. Dump him now so the kid never developes an attachment to the lying cheating bastard.
He doesnt deserve you, you're a million times too good for him!
2006-10-12 12:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by ebaskys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the looser. Do you want that kind of a role model for your child? I have seen similar situations many times. The ones that stick it out "for the sake of the child" are seldom happy. Not to mention the child will probably be exposed to lies from one of the two people in the world they should MOST trust unassumingly!
2006-10-12 12:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his ex, not you....LEAVE HIM you should get an abortion cause it's from him and cause the baby is going to want to meet is cheating daddy later on in life. If no abortion,there's adoption but if you keep it, then find yourself another man, there are plenty out there that would love to be with you and be 100% devoted to you =) Good Luck
2006-10-12 12:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by sogullablegurly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was my husband (i'm 7 mons. pregnant), I wouldn't think twice about leaving him. If he'll cheat on you while your carrying his unborn child, he'll cheat on you anytime. Cheating on a pregnant woman is the worst; when your pregnant, thats when you need them the most and for them to betray that is a neon red flag..
2006-10-12 12:42:37 · answer #11 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋