I met someone online more than 2 years ago and we fell in love. She lives thousands of miles away (In the US) and it's going to take a very long time before we can meet. I recently have been having serious doubts that she's married because of things she said and maybe because we still haven't met yet. I asked her but she keeps saying I'm being paranoid. How can I find the truth?
2006-10-12 12:24:21 · 12 answers · asked by toughthinker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wel id you met her 2 YEARS ago and its going to take a very long time to ever meet... then whats the point????
2006-10-12 12:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a home phone number is always a good start. If she's married, there will be all kinds of good reasons why she won't give you her number (husbands hate it when boyfriends call the house). Also, with the phone number, you can use the internet to do a reverse lookup; verify her name against the phone records. If the phone company lists the number as belonging to Tom, or Dick, or Harry... well, that would require some explaining. If it's a work number... then she lied, didn't she? Zabasearch can also give you all kinds of clues.
That's a start.
2006-10-12 19:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve had a long distance thing going and she has made no indication or moves to physically meet, that would be a signal that something is not on the up and up.
2006-10-12 19:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make if she's single, married or in-between, if you have not met her, and are not going to? Why don't you get out and meet a *real* person.
2006-10-12 19:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can go two years without meeting her and you say it will be much longer, then you could get by just fine without her. so i don't get how you can be in love! i think it's the idea of having someone. you should self evaluate and realize you deserve better. good luck! oh you are probably right with your instincts. move on you deserve more.
2006-10-12 19:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check, Check, Check!
If you can't call her on her home phone; Clue!!
Does she let you send her things to home address??, Clue
Do a people search on the internet, find out if her name,etc. really exists!!!
Find a way to go see her, there are good deals on airfare!
2006-10-12 19:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a sake of argument assume she is lying until she can prove differently
2006-10-12 19:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Discostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On line romances really never work. You don't know if she is lying...doesn't everyone lie on hear for the most part??
2006-10-12 19:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by majesticwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are being deceived, you probably are. And even if you aren't, do you want to pursue a woman you don't trust?
2006-10-12 19:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liars are good spellers.
2006-10-12 19:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋