my little sis died about two or three weeks ago and i keep on sobbing and crying when thinking about her now i get angry real easily and am very sensitive my frends say just chill but wat would udo if ur sister died wen only at the age of 4!
2006-10-12 12:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a loved one, especially one so young is a tragedy. It hasn't been that long, so of coarse you are still thinking about her allot and feel allot of anger. You are grieving, and that is a natural process. You will probably grieve for her till eternity, and think about her everyday. But it will get easier, with time. If you feel the need to talk, then talk, if you feel the need to be angry, then be angry, if you feel the need to cry, then cry. Your body just knows what you need, to help make yourself feel better. What also might help is to talk to your family and tell them how you are feeling, you will find out that they are feeling the same way as you are. Then you can all help each other. You, your family and your lil sis will be in my prayers.
2006-10-12 16:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I am so sorry. My little brother died a few years ago at the age of 3 (he drowned), and I still cry about it even though he's long gone.
What I did was make a little shrine for him, with all his toys and blankets and I put fresh flowers on it in spring and summer. It really helps, and you can sit there and grieve in private. Mourning can take a long time, and most people never get completely over the death of another person they loved. But your sister was an innocent little child, and I guarantee you she's in Heaven and therefore in a far better place than you and I.
People have different ways of mourning. I found it convenient to never talk about my brother, but my mom talked about him all the time. It varies. If you need more help with this horrible tragedy (but remember, your sister lived a good life for the time she was with us), don't hesitate to send me a message, and we can talk some more. Good luck sweetie.
2006-10-12 12:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Penelope L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. It must be really difficult for you! There is nothing I can say to lessen the pain for you. I can tell you that with time you will be able to face the pain easier, but you will probably never get over this traumatic loss completely. My prayers will be with you. Never give up. These are the things that we don't understand why, but there is a reason. It makes us real angry, which is important to get a handle on now. If you need to discuss it with your parents and see about going to a grief counseling group. They have them in just about every town. Don't be afraid to ask for help. I truly wish you the best, even though I know that probably your whole world is turned upside down. I sure hope I have help you somewhat.
2006-10-12 12:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't tell you that I know how you feel because, I have not had this happen to me. You have very right to be upset, whether really sad or mad. I hope your friends understand you are going through a great deal of stress right now. How is your family coping? Has anyone mention getting grief counseling? You may need some help overcoming this, and if you do that's ok. Nobody knows how you are feeling right now, but if you let us we would be glad to listen. Ask your friends to give you some space, and if you are really having a bad day-tell them. Does your school have a counsler there? Maybe a teacher or a close relative that you can share all these emotions with.
My best friend just lost her son, and she had seemed to handle it so well, then it just hit her one day. She went to his grave, she talked to him, she cried for him, she yelled at him, she told him she loved him. Everyone handles grief differently, some it seems to have almost no effect on them, then others go into a deep depression. Why not sit down with your Mom and Dad and tell them you aren't handling this to well, and you need their help.
Please Mom and Dad plently of hugs, that will make them feel better, and I know it always makes me feel better too.
God be with you and your family...
2006-10-12 12:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called grief... It's okay to cry... Try to move on when you feel you are ready... The pain will subside given time...
I've never had a little sister, I have no idea. I do have a niece that if she had died when she was 4, I'd be balling my eyes out and wouldn't care who knew.
2006-10-12 12:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that, my sister died in a car crash aged only 5 months it was a terrible time but with the support of my family and friends i made it through the pain and hurting.
you should try calling a support line in your area dont be affraid to talk about how you are feeling, you will feel alot better if you let it all out!
eventually the pain will subside and you wont feel as bad, although you will never forget her it will get easier!!
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2006-10-12 12:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss.This is a horrible and tragic accident. I wish I could tell you that it gets easier, but it doesn't. You just need to try and find peace with in yourself and remember the beautiful memories that you have of her. You will always miss her but as time goes by you will come to terms with your pain and anguish and realize that she looked up to you and she would want you to live your life to the fullest with joy and happiness and not to live in the past. I hope you find peace within.
2006-10-12 12:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it is hard to get over the intial shock of it all and the pain, you have to remember the good times you had with her. That is what will keep you going and getting thru each day. She will always be apart of you and you will keep her forever in your heart. Although you didn't get the time you wanted to spend together now, look to the future and find the solice that you will one day be together again.
2006-10-12 12:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jul M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to greive over your sister not being with you now.truly I understand it hard right now, if you have to cry and be angry do it!!!!!.
If your friends cant understand then the hell with them.
Pray a lot, it will take time for you tp get through this
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