what should I do?
2006-10-12 12:02:45 · 27 answers · asked by jiraiya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't make a big deal about it. She's at that age of being curious with no information available to her. She hasn't been poisened or anything. I'd say most girls at her age have done the same thing.
You shouldn't do anything except maybe find a better hiding spot if you don't want her reading them.
2006-10-12 12:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
13 year olds are starting to get curious about their bodies, sex, and sexuality.
Don't punish her for looking at them... Maybe this would be a good time to sit down with her and have one of those heart to heart talks about sex, her body, and such!
Nothing terribly wrong with looking at the playboy itself - I would just make it into a learning experience. Answer any questions she might have honestly...
Next time... hide your magazines a bit better if you don't want her getting into them.
2006-10-12 19:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you be keeping playboys where your teenage daughter can find it...? You should be a little more careful. Teenagers are very curious and I can’t see why you are surprised by this
2006-10-14 14:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dushyanthan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetly let her know that realistically, most woman do not look like that. It is hard enough going through puberty without thinking that you are supposed to have this perfect body. She is just curious and if i were you I would just be glad it wasn't Hustler or you'd be having to answering questions instead of asking them.
2006-10-12 19:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by JennieLouie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just curious. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that youd prefer she doesnt look at your magazines.. and keep them more private.. Its just human nature to want to look. Dont punish her for it. If it offends you and came from a outside source, ask where she got it, and put a ban on any more entering your home.
2006-10-12 19:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately take away the magazines. Explain to her that they are not appropriate for her to look at. Then, recommend some other, better teenager magazines. May I suggest: J14, Seventeen, BOP, tigerbeat, etc.
2006-10-12 20:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by onbelay_belayon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children at that age is curious about the human body.Im sure was just amused as to what she will look like in several years.But why you keep them where she can get them?
2006-10-12 21:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1. you shouldn't even have playboy magazines 2. don't leav ethem where someone can get to them that you don't want to. and 3. THATS SICK ITS JUST AS BAD that u even have those magazines, and now she is probably grossed out!
2006-10-12 19:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥chica♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already had the talk then its time for another. Go for a more longer and thorough conversation.
2006-10-12 19:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by gormom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really that bothered then you shouldnt have left them where she could look at them!
its a part of growing up looking at what other women and men look like nude!
next time put your mags where she cant find them!
2006-10-12 19:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by paballaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋