My Grandma is 84 years old, to me she has been more than a Grandma, my best friend. I cant imagine life without her, she has been a little sick lately and all I think about is loosing her and how I am going to react I am so afraid. What other outlooks can I take on this?
2006-10-12 11:55:21 · 9 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't be selfish...though i hope for her recovery coz she is not that too old anyway, but u have to face the truth, that time will come weither we like it or not. just imagine if u wont let go of her and make her live another 30 yrs, who will suffer? It'll be her, not u...so if u really love ur grandma, give her an easy exit (when that time comes)
2006-10-12 12:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this, I couldn't imagine my life without my mom and then she died suddenly. As much as I didn't believe I would be able to go on (she was also my best friend), I have survived. The important thing to do when the time comes is to get grief counseling; it has helped me more than I could believe. Until then, try to relax and enjoy every moment you spend together, tell her you love her whenever the feeling strikes - don't hold back. When she is gone you will cherish all the memories you have of her and those will help you, too.
2006-10-12 19:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you right now that if your grandma passes away i will feel very sorry for you since you are so close to her. i feel the same way if my grandma were to pass away so soon i would be devastated because she lives with me and we are so close and i know that if she was gone id wake up every morning sad knowing that shes not gonna be there when i get home from school...im sorry if im making you feel horrible but my grandpa recently died and thats why my grandma lives with me and my family. we are going thru so many changes right now its not even funny. my grandma had to sell her house, the house i grew up in and i slept over every easter cuz i knew that waking up easter morning would be more fun there.life was great at grandmas house but it all has ended and i know easter nor any other holiday will ever be the same because my grampa will never pull up in my drive way with his truck full of birthday presents and ill never run down my stairs and hug him again. im sorry if im drowning you in my sorrow and scaring you even more than you already are of how youll feel if your grandma was to pass away. i wish it were different.but in the end you shouldnt be scared about her passing away cuz its part of life and shell always live on as your guardian angel and in your sweet memories of her. so i know its hard but when the time comes dont think of her as being dead think of her as always being with you in your thoughts dreams prayers wishes and mostly in your heart. and shell always be looking down on you from heaven watching over you.
best wishes and sorry this was so long.
2006-10-12 19:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by *BR0WN EYESz <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry!!!! if i were you i wouldn't want my grandmother to die i would think that we all will die sometimes we have to let things go my grandmother died when i was 7 so i didn't get to see her very often i feel sad and plus my grandmother died because she was sick but ur grandmother might not have the same sickness as my grand mother so if i were you i would go see her whenever you can that's what i had to to but then 1 day it just happened so you might just not want to worry (like i did) and it made it alot better but of course she had to die
2006-10-12 19:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fear of losing your wonderful Grandmother is what we all must face one day losing ones that we love ,
But I must ask you, have you faith in what Jesus Christ said and promised...I go to prepare a place for you.
and also always remember your Beautiful and Loving Grandmother your best friend will always be with you, and at your side as she is to-day but this is where your Faith comes into question, and please believe me I do not question your faith, I am just saying your Beautiful Grandmother and best friend will always be with you, and I feel in my heart also will guide you through this sad day that you fear to face, because of your deep that you hold in your Heart for your wonderful Grandmother.
But trust in your Grandmother in life as you must trust her in passing,
And she will still be at your side, and very much in your wonderful Heart, as she is to-day.
People that you have grown to love and trust will never leave you, no matter whether on this side or the other side.
Just enjoy this Beautiful Lady that is your Grandmother and share every wonderful moment that you have together and enjoy one day at a time, and leave and trust the very words that was promised to all those that belive and love our Beautiful Lord and savour
Jesus Christ.
you have been Blessed to have been give such a wonderful Grandmother and you have shared so many wonderful times together, and she has given to you so much to hold on to, and remember she to is worry about you, and she is asking in the very depth of her wonderful Heart and Soul,
For you to be stronge and to help her get through this time`in her life because I just can't help feel that she is worry about you, and will you be ok.
please resure her, that you will be ok, and if it come to be hold her ever so Gently in your loving arms and whisper in her ear how mush you love her, and how must you will miss her,
but remember you will be together again one day as it has been wrtten and that has been promised.
Then turn your inner pain to Jesus Christ and trust in yourself and move forward after your time of morning, and begin to feel the very presents of your Beautiufl Grandmothers love that will forever be with you.
Candyman
2006-10-12 20:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by candyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
death is normal. it's a part of our life... we have to accept the fact that eveyone, especially our loved ones, will die when it's their time. spend as much time with your grandma and show her how much she means to you...
2006-10-12 19:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray i mean if god wants it to happen then it will but if he dont it wont i know how u feel too my gramama was sick and me and her were best friends we dident leave eachothers side (tear) well any way good luck
2006-10-12 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by gymnastics0312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOST MY GRANDMA WHEN SHE WAS 85 YRS OLD , SHE HAD ALZHEIMERS DISEASE , MY GRANDMA WAS MY ROCK AND MORE THAN A GRANDMOTHER , MY BEST FRIEND !!
2006-10-12 19:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to think about and enjoy your time with her then to be devastated when it does happen
2006-10-12 19:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋