2006-10-12 11:36:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would confront my spouse and ask what their response was to the flirting.
2006-10-12 11:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If I trust my spouse, I know she will react the right way to the come on. If he continues to pursue after she already denies him, he's disrespecting her. If the disrespect goes too far, thats when I step in with knuckles to the jaw all day.
2006-10-12 18:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd be glad that I wasn't the only one that found my man good-looking! Second, I'd smile knowing that my husband loves me and wouldn't cheat on me because he knows that infidelity is a deal-breaker.
I get hit on all the time I realize that that I love my partner and I cannot control other people's feelings about me and I also wouldn't cheat on my partner just because someone outside my marriage might want me to. I know and expect the same from my husband.
2006-10-12 19:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by On the upside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is very attractive and guys are always hitting on her. I trust that she will respect herself and us ofcourse. so finding out someone came onto her is fine. She tells me about them most of the times. Am always interested in knowing how she dealt with them though. And I would be pissed if I felt she ever led any of them on. hasn't happened yet.
2006-10-12 18:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on how aggresive they were. But actually it would depend mostly on my spouses reaction. If she were bothered then I would try to find a way to get the person to stop. If she kept returning his advances, then I would react more to her.
2006-10-12 18:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Rich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing trust that your spouse can handle the situation...and if it becomes a continuous thing then you can address the problem, but not violently....
2006-10-12 18:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if your spouse came on someone?
2006-10-12 19:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give them any excuse to look for greener pastures...
Make the passion hot in the bedroom and there won't be any wandering eyes... Why give up the solid gold for fool's gold?
2006-10-12 18:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be upset, of course, but I'd get over it as long as the woman was told off, that he is happily engaged, and that he is not interested at all.
If she kept insisting after he tells her to back off, I take matters into my own hands and kick @ss.
2006-10-12 18:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would laugh it off. because he is a pretty big guy an can deal with it for his self. if it were an ongoing problem an he needed my help , then i would gladly handle the situation for him. but i am sure he would have no problem. and i would be flattered if some other gal wanted him!
2006-10-12 18:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋