man somehow weak in sex and this is a fact that all women know, that he can be weak and do sex with anygirl if she can click on the right key on the right time, but even if he love his women much and he do this mistake shall she forgeive him or not?
2006-10-12 11:27:14 · 29 answers · asked by chemistman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In every marriage/relationship we are ALL granted that mistake, ONCE! (Women have just as strong a sex drive as men, often, stronger.) Once should be forgiven, repeatedly doing it again? NO WAY! The term "One A Cheater, Always A Cheater." is not true if REAL love is involved toward the wronged party, but if a person continues to cheat, they only think they love the person they are cheating on, no real love is involved at all, he/she is most likely just an admired object for sex too.
2006-10-12 11:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am beginning to think we put too much on cheating and not the fact at hand "BETRAYAL". which is worse a man that cheats himself through life to get to the top no matter what or who he steps on, and then ask for forgiveness or, a cheating spouse that was not strong enough to say no. Cheating is cheating. It's the person's character. Having sex to some men mean nothing so cheating is not that big of a deal. But if you stress the fact that you betrayed your wife; broke trust on you own desirable acts, then you start to put things in your prespective. A cheating spouse is what the wife makes of it. If she, the wife show that she is strong when she forgives and stick to her word, then I feel the husband will think twice about doing it again, because, the woman is about her business, her word. If she said she forgive and still look for signs, and talk about it as much as she can, then she demonstrate her weakness of being insecure of her own capabilities. A person is only as good as their word. If she forgive, then do that forgive, and move on. Now if he cheats again then keep it moving without the looser, you can catch STD's on your own
2006-10-12 11:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man may be more sexually charged than a woman (not in all cases, though), but he still has the power to choose what he does with those desires. If he is so weak when it comes to sex with other women, he should not be married. If a man chooses to forsake all that he vowed to his wife, the marriage is over. Whether she chooses to leave or not is a personal choice. I think most women would leave. I sure as hell would. No forgiveness for infidelity.
2006-10-12 11:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Vampira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married, but separated now. He cheated and I did forgive him because I loved him that much. The thing is he did it again and at some point a woman has to say enough is enough. So I've picked up the peices to my heart and have moved on. Everyone is worthy of forgiveness, its just that some really dont deserve it.
2006-10-12 12:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the woman. but if u cheated u should tell her. she'll probably respect the fact that u told her instead of trying to hide it from her. that MIGHT earn a chance of her forgiving u. many girls wont forgive u. but some will.
i know i would, depending on what exactly he did. but no matter what he did i would give him a chance to earn me back. and he would have to earn my trust back and there still may be issues.
it really depends on the girl. but the best thing a guy can do is tell the girl that he cheated on her. especially if it was sex. thats bad, and u can't just lie or "not tell the whole truth". otherwise you never would know if your realationship would have made it through that obstacle.
but if it happened a second time, i know maybe one girl, more like ive met one, who would let that slip.
2006-10-12 11:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by BMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for every woman and every man.
Some women always forgive and some never do.
What has to be taken into consideration is:
Is she a forgiving person?
Would you take advantage of that?
I would love to say, "No" but I know that in my marriage I probably would.
I'm a doormat delux and he knows it.
That's the delima that it comes down to.
If I forgive him, will it make him think that I will always forgive him, and if he did it again would I?
Let her get past that, and then don't push her on it. You might be surprised.
It only takes one thing hitting the wrong way to break the marriage.
Tabberlynn
2006-10-12 11:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by tabberlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex bf for a year and half and he cheated on me two weeks after we got together...i only found out about 6months into our relationship where by that time i had fallen for him completly and i loved him so i agreed to forgive him because he explained the situation. the problem i had after that was insecurity and no trust. I forgave but never forgot.
It seems to me that u r married....this is more difficult...if you think you can forgive and forget and try to work on your marridge then why not give it another go but dont let him get away with it again, let him know that you may be giving him a chance but there wont be another one!!
I hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-12 11:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any man that cheats is a loser. if he really loves her it'll take a lot more than "clicking the right key" to make him have sex with another woman. cheaters never change, and the more they do it the easier it gets for them to do it. move on and find a real man that wouldn't even consider cheating on you.
2006-10-12 11:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an answer from a spouse who did the forgiving. and that i'm something yet vulnerable and pathetic; i'm reliable and pleased with myself. I forgave him as a results of fact I only ought to no longer stroll out the door after seeing the remorseful approximately, heart-wretching sobs of discomfort and the affection and care and situation coming from him in the direction of me. He cheated for terribly stupid motives and now feels look after of my love for him. He has shown me no longer something yet honesty and believe formerly and now after he cheated. i'm no longer keen to throw away a 24 twelve months previous relationship as a results of fact of one stupid mistake he made. somewhat, it felt 'appropriate' to stay and that i'm now chuffed I did. look, there's a asserting ' yet for there however the grace of God, bypass I'. ought to very somewhat have been me under the 'incorrect' circumstances. as quickly as could be a mistake, yet two times is a different purpose.
2016-12-08 13:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by anirudh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a repeat offender? if he is then no huney but if i was a 1time thin mayb its like my hubby did it 1 dat i know about he thought he was gona lose me for good i wouldnt talk to him for nothin in the world when he thought he lost me he would cry like theres no tomorrow dat he would never do it again after almost 3 month i went back never did it again an we bein together for almost 6yrs dat sayin bout a cheater all ways a cheater is { bull } if they learn learn from there mistakes
2006-10-12 11:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋