I work hard to pay for my booze and just want to kiss on her and express my love.
2006-10-12 11:18:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your wife wants you to want her when you're sober. When you are under the influence, it makes her feel like the alcohol makes you want her and not because you love her.
2006-10-12 11:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proverbs 20 : 1 ... Wine is a mocker , strong drink is raging , and anyone who is deceived thereby is foolish... this is God's advice, brother.. you take it and will do well for you and your family or reject it and perish which is very sad.. Brother, your wife has all the right to get angry because you are wasting your family's money... even if you are a millionaire !! Your hard work is to earn for the family and not selfishly used by you alone... You love your wife... good but do you love her truly to listen to her to stop drinking ? If not then you are a liar !! I hope not , brother. Drinking can make your eyes look at other ladies and you heart goes to them even foe a short while... that is sin .. worst of all, how can your numbed senses take control of your sexual organs when you are drunk ? you are taking a great risk of committing adultery and God forbids, brother... Again , true love to your wife will see that you do not hurt her feelings .. afterall, if you stop drinking, will it hurt her and you ? Your feeling of superiority is hurt and this you must take control of if you are a real man.... sorry if this sounds offending but I do not like marriages breaking brother... keep the family.... God Bless you
2006-10-12 18:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the problem and you know why.
You have to give love and I mean sincere love and affection to get love.
The ying and the yang what goes around comes around.
If she came home like that and the roles were reversed what would you think.
Think hard my friend, how you live your life and treat other people is a reflection of your self in the mirror.
Good luck I hope you learn what real love is about.
2006-10-12 18:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember how booze was the transition tool between work and home. You are so effing angry from work that you need the alcohol to feel love, to bridge that gap between fury and tenderness. She just wishes there was another way.
2006-10-12 20:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not feel loved because, you get drunk to show her love. another reason is the smell of alcohol is a turn off "it stinks", when it come out the skin. Alcohol alters the mind, instead of getting drunk to show her you care try doing it sober. She might think that it is only the alcohol talking.
2006-10-12 18:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should forgo the booze and the bad breath that goes with it until you get home and can share drinks with your spouse ... at least your breaths will smell the same then and she wont notice ... additionally, your sexual performance will not be as good while in your stupor ... you are just another limp biskit
2006-10-12 18:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one u shouldn't be drinking and driving... and perhaps she would like to have u express u're love when u're sober...also she may want u to find out her day has been and if she even is in the mood for all that at the time
2006-10-12 18:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by program ideas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows that alcohol lowers your inhabitions.
She probably takes that like:
He has to get drunk to sleep with me.
That is a very hurtful thought.
Next time you get horny, come home before you drink.
AND DON'T DRINK AFTERWARDS EITHER.
That's just as bad.
Tabberlynn
2006-10-12 18:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by tabberlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fine to me. But yea pop a mint or brush yo grill
2006-10-12 19:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabey she wants to spend some quality time with you, without having to talk to you through a bottle. i dont know you but most people become a totally differnt person when they are drinking. i also dont know this , but do you try and be passionate when your not drinking? try it... it might help! :)
2006-10-12 18:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by twinkletoes7474 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋