Me and this boy were good friends for about 3 years. We had lots of fun together, we were tight u know. Then during our senior year everything changed (slowly but surely). At the beginning of the year we were still good friends, but then he told me he liked me more than a friend. I told him i liked him to and i did but i was not ready for a relationship with someone in my school and who would be going off to college in a few months. I guess he felt bad, but not bad enough to get a girlfriend in our school. We just talking to each other during the rest of the year. What do u think happened with our friendship?
2006-10-12 11:06:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that after you spilled your fellings in ruined it, I know because the same thing happened to me. Tell him you are ready for a relatioship, and see what happens girl!
2006-10-12 11:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that this guy has deep feelings for you since he knows you so well and you go back so far. He was probably really embarrassed for telling you the feelings he has for you and maybe he feels like he messed up any chance of your friendship being like it was. Some people have the forbidden fruit syndrome, where they have a hard time being around someone that they really like (in that way), but cant "have." Him not having a girlfriend now doesn't necessarily mean anything...maybe he just hasn't found anyone yet, or maybe he's holding out that you'll want to date him. I don't know. I do know that your friendship may be a bit awkward for a while yet, but if you are as close as you say you are, I'm sure you can achieve that level of closeness again someday. Best of luck!
2006-10-12 11:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole situation made it awkward for him a little. There's nothing wrong. You are remaining friends as you wish correct?
If you wanted something more you would have taken it further when he asked. His attention is given to another girl now. There's probably a little jealousy there but dontn sweat it. Like you said
"I told him i liked him to and i did but i was not ready for a relationship with someone in my school and who would be going off to college in a few months."
First reactions are usually the right ones. Noting's really changed, however he wants a relationship so you have to accept the fact he wont always be available now to do things as friends.
2006-10-12 11:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by triciasdish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be just friends with someone you really care for. Maybe he moved on to get over his feelings for you. Don't take it personal but maybe his new girlfriend would rather he not be quiet so friendly with you. If the tables were turned how would you feel?
2006-10-12 11:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by rose v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life happened. He was thinking with the heartm you were thinking with the brain. You should have gone out with him, even if it was for a few months, those could have been the best months of your life. Too late now. Move on
2006-10-12 11:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok read slowly so you can follow along, he liked you for more than a friend and expressed it to you, you rejected him, he moved on. No hidden meanings or crystal balls here, it is what it is now move on.
2006-10-12 11:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by mark f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm gonna take a wager which you adult males have been in love, yet by some ability there became no pastime. maximum relationships devoid of that are going to fizzle even in the previous they have of project to flame out. you are able to desire to have purely grown different than for one yet another.
2016-10-02 05:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ii think ur frien dship might have changed because u told him u didnt wanna go out wit him and that might have really hurt his feelings
2006-10-12 11:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll blow you off for another girl who gets jealous of your relationship so you won't be able to be friends any more. Face it, guys don't want friendships with girls.
2006-10-12 11:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by cbr♥fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grew up faster than he did, obviously. Hopefully you'll remain friends, once he catches up to your level of maturity.
2006-10-12 11:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jim P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋