I am currently going to college I did have a job but be ignorant I lost it. I have no family that supports me because they do not want me to become successful because they did'nt do anything with there life. But I just got out of a physical and mental abusive home. Now I am going to college was trying to work a fulltime job but it was to much so I quit yes I no it was ignorant . Now I have rent due insurance on car due and light bill due and its bring me to drink alot for some reason. I am living life on the edge to speak and I am not sure what to do. Now I can get a ride to college no problem I am very ignorant I no I am very fustrated right now and very sadden that my parents are not in my life. I need them bad but they could care less about me I really dont have true friends where I live because of course there hard to find I think I am going to have to sleep in my car for alittle bit of time until I either get a parttime job at the college or until I get my student loans pleasehelp
2006-10-12 10:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell you what save all your drinkin' money and pay your bills with that and repent and give your life to God he will bring you though the trails beileve me! : )
My God owns the cattles on a thousand hills
he knows my needs and he pays my bills.
2006-10-12 10:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, take a deep breath. Now, you said that you have some bills to pay. That is your biggest problem. For the rent issue, you need to find someone who will board with you and pay half, or, you need to move in with someone that will give you a couple of months to get back on your feet. (Once you do you need to pay them back in full, including those first months.) Otherwise, yeah, you may have to sleep in your car for a bit. Hopefully it wont be a long bit. Get a part-time job until you can find a good full-timer. That should stabilize your financial situation. Continue going to college, but you may have to drop a class to help with the bills. In the mean time, find a food bank near you and get some food! Salvation Army has free food. (at least it does where I live) They may be able to help. Another thing, stop drinking! It will not only ruin your health, but it also will destroy your pocket book. Please do not get trapped in alcohol.
If your situation is worse than this then you may want to go to a shelter. They will take care of you until you can become financially stable again. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-12 18:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start calling the churches in your area. Most of them have a fund to help people pay their bills, but they will generally only help out once in a specified period of time - but you have to ask for the help!
Asking is the hardest part - but there are times when you just have to swallow your pride.
You really can find churches that will help pay the bills that you now have due. This will give you one month to get yourself back together, before the bills come due again. Use that time wisely!
And, when you are back on your feet, remember those churches that helped you out, and try to repay the money - even though it won't be required.
2006-10-12 23:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this is not working out for you.Iknow how you feel about no friends.I have only had one real friend in life and he died several years ago.I wish to I could find a real friend that wanted to be a friend and not want favors that I can`t supply.My folks didn't do much for me growing up.If i wanted something I had to buy it or do it myself.What college do you attend?I had to live in a tent for about three months.I know were you are coming from
2006-10-12 18:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snagajob.com
careerbuilder.com
yahoojobs.com
here are 3 job site 4 u 2 look at
im am still trying 2 look 4 a job so that i can move in wit my man bu next year so good luck girl.
2006-10-12 17:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick your head up and hit the streets for a job. show your family that you CAN be somebody that they can be proud of.
2006-10-12 18:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by mswalls00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋