It's like this he was a really good friend and i really liked him (more than a friend) i thought he liked me to but what he did was so wrong. Ok I was suppose to go to prom with another one of my guy friends and he got a girlfriend and said he could not go with me anymore, i felt bad but accepted it.Then this other friend came up to my laughing at me saying how i got dumped and all kind of sh**. He made me so mad . So the next day i told him to never speak to me again. We have not spoken since, I did not even hug him at our graduation. It has been 6 months and i am starting to miss him. Was I wrong?
2006-10-12 10:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rash, maybe, but not necessarily wrong. He was being immature. And he does owe you an apology, but probably doesn't even realize it or may not even care. You could just let bygones be bygones if you miss him that much, but you might want to see if he's anymore mature before you spend much time pursuing this friendship
2006-10-12 10:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, yes because if you miss him then you still like him. See, I've been through the same thing. You like them then they get a girlfriend and then you dump them as a friend but then later you want them back again. I understand. But, no because if he really did care he would have talked to you earlier. So, yes you were wrong and no you weren't wrong. All I can give you is to tell you to call him up and talk to him. Just ask to hang out or something then if he missed you too then say your sorry and that you'd wish to be friends again!
2006-10-12 10:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first before you started jumping to conclusions I would have went up to him and ask him what's the deal with him gottin other girls coming up to you frontin, females will pop off at the mouth alot so you just gonna have to push them to the side, if you have his number call and talk about what really happen you will never get over it until you have complete closer and truth. Good luck cause if ya'll was meant to be it will be trust me.
2006-10-12 10:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What he did was extremely cruel and wrong. You should never laugh at someone when they feel bad. Sucks that you miss him, but you are better off without someone like that in your life.
2006-10-12 10:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe you were a bit too sensitive. If i were you I would have laughed along with him and said, yep your right my *** got dumped. It would cancel out his making fun of you. The old saying, "if your laughing along with them, then they can;t be laughing at you."
I'd call him up and apologize, try to get the friendship back
2006-10-12 10:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant believe you didnt hug him at graduation, I am sure by now he has committed suicide over it. The sky is falling did you hear.
2006-10-12 10:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just feeling guilty. Explain to him that you want to talk to him. If he won't accept it, maybe you were right for ditching him.... Just think before you speak.
2006-10-12 10:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Here To Help 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be mad as you want at him but you don't have to stay mad forever.
2006-10-12 10:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋